Does your spouse open your mail?

@mipen2006 (5528)
Australia
January 25, 2007 9:35am CST
If your spouse opens your mail, does it bother you? My first wife always opened my mail and it annoyed me. Even though I had nothing to hide I believe it's extremely rude to read, let alone open another persons mail without their permission. What are your thoughts?
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4 responses
25 Jan 07
No he doesn't but it wouldn't bother me even if he did as I mostly just get rubbish through the post lol I have on occassion opened post that is addressed to him but this is mail that I know exactly where/who it has come from and conserns both of us and is usually something we are expecting, when I have opened this mail it is usually because I am about to leave the house and he is not out of bed yet and I am just to nosey to wait till I get back to the house to find out what has been said.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
26 Jan 07
I agree that sometimes there is mail that is addressed to one person in a partnership, and this wouldn't worry me either. However, private mail is a different matter.
@lols189 (4798)
25 Jan 07
i dont mind my boyfriend opening my mail as i open his when he's not here. i dont have anything that am hiding from him so i am not really bothered.
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
26 Jan 07
Does he listen to all your phone calls too?
@xXmeganxX (4423)
25 Jan 07
i totaly agree with you on this one, my partner used to open my mail and he can't read properly so he would get his friend to read it to him!! i go mad about it because after all it's about privacy and that's private and confidential, it doesn't happen anymore tho, thank god! :)
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@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
26 Jan 07
I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who objects to this.
• India
25 Jan 07
No i am unmarried.
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