Who's to blame in a break up?

India
January 25, 2007 2:52pm CST
Are women held more responsible as relationship wreckers? Do men get instigated? Would a man be held equally responsible?
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• Philippines
26 Jan 07
Both men and women are responsible in a relationship. If ends up in a break up one will be to blame for it takes two to dance and in a relationship to work two of you should work for it to last.
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• India
26 Jan 07
yes you are right and may ,i mean most of the people have the same thought, anyways thanks for the response, will be eagerly waiting for your reply, lets see if any person has anything different to say......
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@JJOD2007 (160)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Both parties should be held responsible for a break up. Because it's unfair to say that the man should be blamed or the women should be blamed. For me, both of them should acknowledge their faults and learned from it, so that they won't do it in the next relationship. And learn to forgive themselves.
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• India
26 Jan 07
thats right, i think both of them are equally responsible for the break up, they should sit together are sort out the shortcomings between them, comment on this pls
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@nicolai (288)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
I think in a relatioship, the couple is responsible for their actuations therefore if someone went wrong,it means that its the couple's failure, both of them not just one.
• India
7 Feb 07
well can any one be completly responsible, i have seen cases where the fault lies in only one but both of the couple have to suffer, whats the ideal solution for such problems
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I think sometimes it is 50-50. I think everyone in a relationship somehow contributes to the break up.
• India
7 Feb 07
well what would you say when only one person is responsible, as i have seen such things happen
@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
If one is cheating then it's the cheaters fault. If one isn't paying enough attention to the other then it's their fault. But in rare situations where it's nobody's fault, whose to blame?! I guess no one. In a relationship everything is a compromise. Each person accepted their partner despite of their short-comings.