Looks Vs Character. Which one do you prefer?

January 25, 2007 3:50pm CST
We know that most of us looks for a cute, handsome fellow. But still people says that it is the character that matters! So where will you compromise?
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@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
25 Jan 07
The best looking guy or girl can be the biggest A$$. I am more intersted in their character and personality.
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26 Jan 07
That was a little harsh to those cute fellows!
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@shaanigi (441)
• India
26 Jan 07
i think look with character will be the best bet
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• United States
26 Jan 07
As my friend Robert Frost once said: "nothing gold can stay." At any moment, some chaotic mishap could steal a person's good looks from them, and then what are they left with? Their character. I'll take this a step further--you have to be able to converse with your potential relationshipee. As long as you can continue to find new and interesting things to discuss with great passion and relish, you will be okay.
27 Jan 07
May I get the contact number of your friend?...LOL
@The_Eagle_1 (1121)
• Australia
26 Jan 07
I'm not looking for a cute fellow...but when I was looking for a partner, character was a large requisite of my choice, not withstanding the quality of cuteness too though!! lol. The thing about choosing a partner is the varied types of people to choose from.... and there is really no rush to choose one! The main thing is to enjoy one's life for the moment, then if a "choice" comes along.. one will know, and know what to do!
26 Jan 07
I feel that you are very right in that there is no rush to find out our love! When the right one comes, our instincts will say "It's time to act!"
• India
26 Jan 07
at first we look face whether he/she is handsome or cute . than only we go to next step character . but for serviving in life character is most important .
28 Jan 07
Yeah, that's what reality is!!
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
I dont agree. for you will never get what you want. you should always look for a compromise. For you will not be that lucky if you get both. But if you do well congrats!!!! and goodluck!!
• India
26 Jan 07
We might not get both but we should prefer Character first as it is very much necessary to live respectfully.
@sunny5u (2069)
• India
26 Jan 07
I saw many boys and girls with no character at all.I will prefer only character 100%,i believe i will get her.
28 Jan 07
yeah, best of luck!
• India
28 Jan 07
No matter what.. The looks give the first impression and the best impression ! Then the character comes along the way.. even if ur rude but for good some girls will like it and some dont ! Nowadays girls are looking for strong guys than to the soft one's !
• Malta
27 Jan 07
I definitely choose character in the first place. When coming to looks, many people I know that are obsessed by their looks are empty minded. There are other very good looking people that looks are not so important for them. Those are the people I like best!
• India
29 Jan 07
i think i wud go for character than looks coz...when character is lost; everything is lost.
@khufara (73)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
both is important i think but sometimes after the physical attraction you always look for character. its that matters.
• India
27 Jan 07
Looks is what gets ones attention. Anyone looking angelic will be assumed to be one. But the truth or the character surfaces eventually, but by then the harms done.
• United States
29 Jan 07
I would have to say character... because that's what truelly makes a person who they are. You as a person can change your looks as many times in a year that you want. But what stays the same is character.
• Philippines
14 Apr 07
i always look into a man's character. looks is just secondary. he doesn't have to be handsome, as long as he is conscious with his hygiene, does not have foul breath and body odor, and looks normal, he's good for me.
@dzhuul (105)
• Malaysia
14 Apr 07
Mmmm...I think the characters is the crucial one.You see, when a handsome with a bad habit (picking his nose front of u), r u really accept this guy.Although i'm a guy,mmmm u know what i'm going to say.For me the character of the person does matter b'coz when we r feel comfortable, the physical does count anymore....That my opinion...Bubye.. :)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
Character is the best. Yeah
• Nepal
26 Jan 07
Yes always when you see someone you certainly go for looks. We all love handsome, beautiful but reality is not go there to know about his characther is must. You should go for his character.
@cathiza27 (188)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
If I can have both then good right?I still want number one the character it self but of course I hope I can take his look also, not that handsome, but has a look.
@achaeir (47)
• Indonesia
26 Jan 07
Character is above all.. Let's say you are having the most handsome and the cutest boy in the world, but behind it he often tells lies, cheats and even torture you. So extremely, which one do you prefer, a saint with the face of a beast or a beast with the face of a saint....
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
i believed all prefer both! lol. for me, character comes first followed by looks. never judge a person by his/her looks and cheat your own feelings. at the end of the day only you yourself will suffer.. that's what i think. and of course your feeling is the key factor. treasure ur loved ones! :D
• India
26 Jan 07
hmm yeah...luks goes da oder way nd charcter...da oder way..if ur finding ur self a partner..den da top most prority is given to da character...ur compatibility wid dat person...bt if ur tryin firtin around den its obvisouly luks..characters only mattr wid da true relationship...