my younger sister is in love with my boy friend???????

India
January 26, 2007 4:08am CST
yesterday i went to my younger sister's room. i saw a diary on her table. i know that she is a habbit of writing diary.i just start readind suddenly i saw my boy friends name there. i started reading. and i was shocked. she has written that she is in love with my boy friend but she cant tell to him because he loves me. she has written that she will not marry anybody because she loves him truely. what should i do how to handle this situation???
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6 responses
• United States
26 Jan 07
You should do nothing at all. You had no right to read her diary. You now have to continue as if you never read this private book. You never mentioned your/her age. For her if she is younger than 18ish She is most likely to be going thru a faise in life. Your boyfriend could be a very nice gentlemen who has shown her how a ma should treat a woman. if this is true than be proud of him and be happy. If this is not the case,just sit her down and ask her if she has a boyfriend and go from there. Your her big sister after all. Model your behavior and show her the right way to love your boyfriend.
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• United States
26 Jan 07
We know you're 22 but how old is She? Mostly likely it's a crush. A fantasy that she really wouldn't want but likes thinking about. That's a lot of what a diary is. You really can't do anything without breaking a sacred sister trust. You read something you shouldn't have. ‹(°¿°)›
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• India
26 Jan 07
i think you are right what should i do. how can i help her.........
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• United States
26 Jan 07
What do you mean? I thought this is for gr8mind084. Let me know what you're talking about. ‹(°¿°)›
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@Bbilal (2001)
26 Jan 07
Well, it all seems to be filmi stuff. Anyhow, as I am here to resolve peoples problem so all I can help you is. Tell you younger sister that I love him and He loves me too, Oh, God! Let her write girl I though that rather when my girlfriend left me but the time never remains the same, she will got someone whome she'll again start loving. Donot loose your love because of your sister just explain her that you love him. I hope she will definetly got understand!
@smacksman (6074)
26 Jan 07
All is fair in love and war so the saying goes. Let your sister know that you think she is getting too friendly with your boyfriend and to back off - go find your own boyfriend!
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• India
26 Jan 07
YOU SHOULD TELL HER THAT YOU LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES YOU. SO SHE SHOULD FACE REALITY AND TRY TO DIVERT HER MIND FROM HIM.
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• India
26 Jan 07
leave the matter and leave ur bf.. he is not of ur type... seriously.. u will find a better one.. he might b near u...c with ur open eyes.... U r doin engg or event mgmnt?? what ur bf do??