why guys can't stick to one?

Philippines
January 26, 2007 8:05pm CST
most of the guys are really not contented with one girlfriend. is it really hard to be loyal? i dont believe of their excuse that its their nature and that they really cant avoid temptation when a girl makes the first move. isnt that stupid?
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25 responses
• India
27 Jan 07
We men are pathetic animal and by nature a wanderer, you may not like what I am saying, but thats what it is and yes its stupid and we cut a very sorry figure in front of you women.
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
well, at least you're being honest.
• India
28 Jan 07
Well Honesty Is One Commodity I Cherrish Most.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
it's hard to find honest guys at this time, you know, most of them are really pretentious and liar.
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
Guys definitely can't stick to 1 for only one reason: "there is something wrong with their partner"
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• Philippines
27 Jan 07
not all because even if they have a good partner, they always still craving for something else. you cant find all-in-one to a one person....that should be understand.
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
Yeah, males are not all the same. Like my husband event hough we are far from each other for almost 5 years but still He is loyal to me that's why we become one.
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• Philippines
27 Jan 07
good for you...(",)
@Gmens91 (389)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
What is this, guy bashing? I reamined loyal to my girl friend for 6 years and five months, and then she broke my heart by saying no when I proposed. I've gotten over it, and currently have another girlfriend with whom I've remained loyal to for the past three years now.
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
good for you then that your a loyal one. its really hard to find nowadays.
@blindedfox (3316)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Some guys really can't stick to one. Yet, there are some who are able to do this. It can either be that there is something wrong with them OR his partner. =)
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
that's possible too.
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
As the cliche goes,men are polygamous in nature. But actually, it has been stereotyped by them already. Boys will always be boys. They like to have fun and most of them can't resist temptation. And that is NOT good and really stupid.
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
yeah, i strongly agree with you.
• United States
27 Jan 07
bcoz girls heart is not stable and as it feeling changes the attitude chnages, as attitude changes the structure of the face changes and it is not the same face which guy like bfore getting involved.
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
maybe you just don't understand what she really feels.
@amitavroy (4823)
• India
27 Jan 07
Different people have different opinion but I think you are involved on this. It is not that guy keep changing their girlfriends. I have even seen girls who keep on changing bf. So this is not the particular things in the boys it happens to all people and this is due to the society today. If you want to change this we have to change the host system we have to change the thinking process and also we have to change the nature of thinking then only can they stop these type of things.
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
it's your opinion then...
@zhell_12 (119)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
we have the same questions in mind. i have experienced many times. i have given the best for our relationship to work but there will always come to a point that men cant just have one girl in his life. and there's no other way to do but to quit for the relationship. he can't fight for our love so why should i???
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
you're right. you cant go on to a relationship where you're the only one fighting for the sake that it would last because you value him much. but it wont last forever if he himself didnt make an extra effort for your relationship.
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
i think,maybe it is really their nature... and maybe, i dont know!!1
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
well, it could really be their nature and some other reasons that are really to mention.
@mansha (6301)
• India
27 Jan 07
Looks like someone broke your heart so remeber that song "last christmas I gave you my heart ...the very next day you gave it away So this Year to save me from tears I will give it to someone special" Moral all guys are not the same, find your soul mate he is out there somewhere waiting for you.leave that looser who can't control his temptations and find someone with backbone
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
hahahaha not really, im happy with my bf so far right now.
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
Guys can't stick to one because they are egoistic. Having many girlfriends add to their masculinity, they say. But, if you are lucky, there are men out there who are loyal to girls they love and stick to them only.
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
you're right!
• India
27 Jan 07
Excuse me same thing happen wid girls too they also even cant stick to a guy too..i saw so many girls who one day going wid some person and on the other day going wid some other person
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
it really never happened until girls realized that they cant be stupid just because of boys.
• United States
27 Jan 07
some men are pigs, some men have no feelings, some men are cold hearted. BUT there are some men that do stick to one woman, i think men oops i mean boys will play over and over agian until they have found the one. once that happens he will grow up and have just one
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
well, i guess you're right.
@hottie0728 (1732)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I hate guys who are trying to be a player and loves to flirt and date as many as they can even if they don't have to. I think their purpose is to show that all girls are crazy over them. I think that being a guy is not always an excuse for flirting and cheating.
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
you're right. those guys who collect and collect girls wanna boast to their friends that they have fooled this number of women and are really dying for them. i really hate this kind of man, so immature.
@cliks4fun (166)
• India
27 Jan 07
Main reason is that misunderstanding both side...
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
possible, but not all. there could be a lot of reasons.
• United States
27 Jan 07
Weird,I've always been faithful to my self and who I'm with.I guess I'm not normal.I've found that alot of women stray.I only need one,just one....a good one.And That's coming from a single guy who dosen't run around like a dog.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
good for you that you stick to one. its really hard to find someone like you nowadays.
• Romania
30 Jan 07
Somethimes we get bored ! Did you notice that whenever a guy cheates on his girlfriend the girl with who he's cheating her looks totaly different ! That's because he found in her what ever was missing in you ! But surely he will come back to you if he realy love you !
• India
30 Jan 07
i can understand dear. i know that happens quite offen. but i think that i am the lucky one having a faithful husband. only thing i wanted to say is all men are no the same
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@opinder (421)
• India
30 Jan 07
not all guys do that. but yes...it takes a lot of courage and faith to stay loyal to someone....especially in long distance relationships.
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
yes...its a big S-T-U-P-I-D-I-T-Y! Guys are not contented with us girls if..we cannot provide them all their wants, we should understand them all the time, respect them..Guys dont need wife or partner in life, most of them need comfort woman..for a lifetime only..! isnt its so UNFAIR for us gurls.? its very hard to be loyal..as they say having one girlfriend is a POOR guy..! he should have more of that..! we are the material thing of GUYS..just face the reality..!