Do you dislike people telling you what to do?

@tarachand (3895)
India
January 27, 2007 3:47am CST
In my case it depends, if it's good advise then I am okay with that. What of you?
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• India
27 Jan 07
no they r always welcome who tells me good ideas about what should i do
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
27 Jan 07
Thanks for your reply!
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
2 Feb 07
you catch more flies with honey than vinegar
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@samraf (725)
• India
27 Jan 07
well not such as dislike but yes i dont want tio tell everyone what i do and where because i wont to show them all when ill be doing in much better place and position before that i dont feel like telling everyone that i am doing this and iam doing that. Sometimes it also not good spirtualy anyways i dont like o tell evveryone about what i do .
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
27 Jan 07
Thnaks for your reply!
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@oarnamav (2708)
• India
27 Jan 07
Well it depends upon the level of advice. If it's good for my good sake then I normally take it seriously. I don't like people talking without any concrete experience and base. But instead of going upset I try to ignore the unwanted and useless advice altogether. This keeps me cool for attending the next lectures & phylosophies.
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
27 Jan 07
Thanks for the detailed reply!
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@rodyeu (209)
• Romania
27 Jan 07
I think the same.If ti's a good advice,than ok,if it is not,then I ignore that person forever:))
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
27 Jan 07
Good for you! Thnaks fro your response!
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@ilunice (947)
• Netherlands
27 Jan 07
Why should I. I love taking instruction and following it to letters. I see Those who hate taking instructions as bad followers. I doubt it if ever they too could make a good leader by not giving instruction to the followers. It also equally good to accept criticism in good faith especially if it is constructive. I naturally won't take any abusive or destructive criticism.
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@tarachand (3895)
• India
27 Jan 07
Thanks for your response. We both seem to think alike on this.
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@jimfabo (327)
• India
3 Feb 07
I actully don't like people telling me do this and do that... but its also depends who? when? and where? if its good advise and if i ask for it than its fine... its all depend on time and situation.
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I like to be told in a asking way not in an ordering way
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@hcromer (2712)
• United States
6 Feb 07
If I ask for somebody's input I usually don't get mad if they try to tell me what to do. But when I didn't ask for someone's input and/or I'm in a bad mood I do get mad.
@stefg023 (62)
• United States
6 Feb 07
i'll always listen to what people have to say. ultimately, i'm still the one making the decision.
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I am that way too. I do not dismiss anything until I heard it all and then I will decide if I will or not.