love marriage or arranged marriage

@vityota (879)
India
January 28, 2007 2:56am CST
Which one do you prefer love or arranged marriage and which is safe... let me know your experiences
12 responses
• India
7 Feb 07
Arranged marriage is the best one.
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@uhevelyn (219)
• Japan
7 Feb 07
Love marriage is best for me.
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• India
7 Feb 07
love plus arranged i prefer and lt is also safe.
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@navikh333 (529)
• India
7 Feb 07
it depends on the mentality of the person.mny love marriages have been broken also...and even arranged marriege is also broken.but it is your wish to opt for love or arranged marriege
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• India
6 Feb 07
Hi Friend..... Love marriage is best man...... thankx
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• India
5 Feb 07
arranged marriage is best.....Although no longer predominant and difficult for many people to understand,arranged marriages still exist in many cultures.
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• India
4 Feb 07
well i prefer an arranged marriage . infaqct in a recent article in a magazine called BRUNCH which comes as a supplement with the hindustan times newspaper every sunday did a study where it concluded that todays generation is more inclined and favours arranged marriages.
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• Sri Lanka
3 Feb 07
At this instant, i prefer no marriage at all. I'm fed up of seeing divorces. I just had a friend call me and say that shes gonna file for a divorce and shes only 23 with a kid. I dont think i believe in marriages anymore.
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• India
3 Feb 07
arranged marriage..
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Marriage based on love is the only way to go. An arranged marriage makes it sound like dog breeding or something. It's just not right, or normal. God, imagine having to have kids with that person - UGH!
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• India
31 Jan 07
I believe Love marriage is the best as you atleast know the person you are going to spend your entire life with. In arranged marriages people spend years and years just knowing each other and by the time they actually start bonding well with each other, their time to enjoy life is almost over. In love marriages, you are well acquainted with your partner's traits and thus know it beforehand what will your partner like and what will they dislike. So you can plan your days,holidays and entire life accordingly. I think its safe too!
@delaney36 (817)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
i go fr what is normal and right. I marry for love. It's very difficult to be with someone whom you don't love at all. Imagine the struggles you have in a marriage out of love, how much more with arrange marriage? Chances are for arrange marriage is that you won't stay together that long. But t be fair, there are arrange marriage that work too coz they were determine to make it work no matter what. I admire those kind of couples.
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