Feel totallly sad for these people.

@shobasvk (787)
Malaysia
January 28, 2007 2:17pm CST
Just recently i went to see what new discussion to send reply for that when suddenly i saw some one post a topic "i hate asians" and some post "i hate girls" or even like "i hate caucasian"..I have no idea why they are giving such opposition discussions..Aren't they really makes hurt of people who reading that if those who read that is related to that topic discussions? I just can't help this kinof topic..i was about to screw up that person..but then i changed my mind.. I won't get any benefits for just commenting to them.But it sometimes do gets on my nerves!! There are many things to be shared here since in mylot community..many various people are here.So i think it is not wise ccepable to hurt someone.What do you think about that..I want to know how many of you support my discussion here.
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@lauriefnp (5111)
• United States
28 Jan 07
Thank you for taking the high road and posting this. I just saw the "I hate Asians" post and was ready to jump right in and blast the person, but I thought "what's the use- he's obviously a pathetic loser". The discussion will get deleted, of course. In the meantime, I hope that no one feeds into it. You're so right- there are so many different people here, and we are all trying to get along, learn about each other's cultures, and make a little bit of money. Why would somebody be deliberately hurtful and cruel? And how did that user get to be 15 years old (if that's even true) with that horrible attitude? Can you imagine what a racist pig he'll be in another few years? It's a shame.
@raveena (1353)
• India
29 Jan 07
I agree to your comment laurie. I really wish that no one really answers to their posts. I feel that they would be posting such things so that they get many postings to their question
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@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 07
Thank you for posting me that..im quite happy now that there are still many good people here in mylot.Give respect to each other cultures and be friend with everyone.Thanks for that.
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I ignore such people. I tend to believe they do it intentionally to attract attention and create intrigue. I find myLot enjoyable too, making friends all over the world, learning and getting different opinions from people is really great. So let's just disregard the bad bananas.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
29 Jan 07
yep. i find members here who post disgusting issues and degrading discussions just because they want to get more attention from the members. and well, they're not worth of our efforts.
@leanette (3002)
• India
29 Jan 07
saw that post, heights of foolishness! he is just a kid and needs to 'really' grow up. i have reported him. hurrah! :D
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@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
I have reported him too..Thanks for your cooperation.At least we help mylot to reduce some abusing posts.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
28 Jan 07
I agree with you its sad there is alot of hate between people here and its not right I know how you feel. There is always somebody trying to start some trouble. Just ignore them if you give in to them then thats what they want.
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 07
I have this feeling that this person might make trouble with me since i started a discussion to ppoint his/her mistakes.Do you think im wrong or i caught my ownself?
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
you are right. i just want to think of them as pathetic. they don't know that they wamt in life or just want to get noticed. it will hurt others specially if the topic is found to be in general saying negative things to them. let us not post comments on these people . they are pathetic!
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@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
Pathethic people,you are right.
• India
29 Jan 07
i agree with u cause i happened to see one guy posted i hate americans but he apologised for his post and another one written if jesus is god why did he pray to another god? this kind topics is the reason there are enemity between religion ,countries and all
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@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
Oh yes,i saw that also and he apologize for that.
@kataztrophy (1836)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I honestly think people create topics like that just to get attention. Whether or not they actually feel like that in their hearts they should either keep that race related hatred to themselves or actually try to learn about other cultures as a way to counter act it.
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@banta78 (4326)
• India
29 Jan 07
yeah i have myself seen some posts like indians are racists, anti indians, anti americans... Though i feel really bad what these fellows are doing on mylot forum with their preconceived notions, prejudices, social mindset, mental conditioning. Though i wanted to give the a befitting reply and warn them against polluting the atmosphere here on mylot forum but i choose to ignore them as i don't want to be sucked in contributing to their thread as that is exactly they want to do. I feel it is very bad to generalise whole community, country, as bad, evil for actions of chosen few. Though i feel the silent majority is peaceful like you and me, it's only few who wnat to foment trouble to get some quick bucks. hoepfully mylot admin will find ways with our cooperation to discourage them from doing so.
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• Ireland
28 Jan 07
I also saw that post as I was browsing, and I didn't like it, so I just decided to skip over it. I wouldn't waste my time responding to such people. I am sure the intelligent people on this site will just ignore such posts and hopefully MyLot will delete them. I guess we will always get a few with an IQ lowere than sea level. Don't get upset my other peoples ignorance. They are not worth it.
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@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 07
Well thanks for that.I appreciate that.We should respect other people as well,coz they are a part of mylot people too.
@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Yeah it's sad to see a lot of people full of hatred amongst others. Worse is they enjoy hurting those people they hate, I'm not sure what they get from tormenting other people. I do hope they will grow up and be mature to the fact that not everyone are created alike.
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• India
29 Jan 07
we cannot change their mindset n we don't have to, i would like to just carry on with own work and be two steps ahead of them
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@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I'm with you all the way... just responded to one like these a few minutes ago. We just have to basically ignore them and control our anger when we read posts like that. . . we don't have so stoop down to their levels, right?! Big waste to our golden time. haha!
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• India
29 Jan 07
let fools be fools as some1 posted before me... who cares if they hate Asians, etc? hate mongers ought to be ignored, not given attention... ignore them thats it
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• India
29 Jan 07
People are just want to earn money
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@dip_cool (411)
• India
29 Jan 07
i think people just start this kind of topics to get attention.i mean controversial issues always draw a huge attention and in this case here in mylot it draws numerous responses and that means more income for the poster.though there is really some rude people like that and they just post topics like that out of hatred but earning is a big issue here.so it is to draw replies in my opinion.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Regardless of what people may say, a lot of people feel inferior. That is why they like to put other people down. In this way they boost up their own ego. Do not let the words of these people hurt your feelings. Just remember that you and are fine person, a good person, and that God loves you.
@creationhub (3066)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
One effective method to eliminate or reduce this issue is to award them a negative rating. Not nice to do so, but if it helps, then why not? A lttle spark may lead to a bonfire before long. So let us all help to make sure all these negative sparks do not even come about.
• India
29 Jan 07
hi shobha , whenever you come across with such discussions you can report it to mylot , they have provided you a very good option of RATING the responses " + , - , ! " if u think that was abusive then directly select the appropriate option and mylot wil take care of rest of the things. so always rate the responses you can also rate those response as " - " so that they cant earn for that entry and they loose star rating too.
• Romania
28 Jan 07
Hey .. don't be sad... fools will always be fools :*
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
28 Jan 07
Yeas..i support you.
@Baddie (47)
• India
29 Jan 07
Shoba- this is my 1st day at mylot blog site, as i finished my registration and about to shout on any good blogs...but i found most of them are kiddie discussion, i haven't find any good one...!!some one complaing in blog, and some are saying "some ones blog headline is " my boi like dog and i like cat" cmon...wots goin on here? is there any mature blogian?
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
Welcome to mylot and glad to see you here.This is not like complainig..this is our rights to stand up on our opinion.Here in mylot when can share many good thoughts and most people here are really goood in matuarity except for some who have to grow up a littele.It is also the rules in mylot not to abuse anyone here..Do you got that.This is the place to rise up your opinion but not to hurt other people feelings or culture.Give respect and take respect.