I found out my husband cheating on me...

Malaysia
January 28, 2007 11:15pm CST
That's was when i came back home i founda short messange on the phone recorder, a short messange by a girl for him. And i don't know since when is this, i was so confused for now. Maybe i put too much time on work? or what? What should i do now?
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@sylvrrain (661)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I think the first thing I would do is ask him. Let him know about the message on the phone, and tell him you want to know what it means. Do not think it is because you work. Men do not have affairs because the wife is helping to support a family. I think that they cheat mostly because it makes them feel more like a "man". It makes them feel good because they can still attract a woman. Let him know how confused you are, and let him know how you feel about him. Maybe it hasn't actually gone too far. I think the big thing is to discuss this together. Try not to argue, that will not get you anywhere. Just talk. Maybe he will tell you the truth, and you can sort all this out. Good luck.
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
I will see what is the next steps will this "girl" takes, i don want to lose my husband as we are 7 years of marriage. I take it easy for now.
@rlshaw (872)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Did you talk to you husband about it.. What did the msg say? I'm so sorry about this, You will get through this. I know it is hard but we are all here to help you..
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
The messange goes something like "she" was waiting for him in apartment for more than 3 days, and expecting him to show up and meet her. And that's what we call affair right? I don want to admit this or face this, but it seem so hard. And now He is still donno everything about this incident that i already heard this conversation. I want to talk to him about this messange but what i am thinking of doing is i will see what is going on next.
@cicci8331 (178)
• Pakistan
29 Jan 07
I am so sorry to hear this,i think it is confused you deeply,and what content of this message,you may conform your husband,understanding how about his thinking.