marry the one who loves you or the one whom you love

@niitesh (1656)
India
January 29, 2007 4:58am CST
discuss the above statement in the light of your life
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@few00cent (2143)
• India
29 Jan 07
its pretty hard to make decision.but i would like to marry one who love me not to one whom i love.you see,the one who loves me will understand me better.where as i cant say the same to one whom i love .maybe or maybe not understand me.no matters what the one who love me will be always in my side.
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• India
29 Jan 07
thats hard to give decision whom do u select to marry. if v select d one whom v love then they might b 2 options if the person loves us also then there is no problem in selecting them else u need to go to the second one.
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@mindz_me (179)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
If the one i loved loves me too so, i'l choose the one i loved. There's some one who proposed marriage to me before whom i know he really loves me but i turned it down its because i'm afraid i can't love him back. Its unfair in his part.
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@WebMann (4732)
• Canada
29 Jan 07
I personally wouldn't do either given the choice. If you both don't love each other what is the purpose of getting married and don't think you can change the other person as that usually doesn't work. I am living proof, after 25 years of marraige my wife is still convinced she can change me. :)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I truelly couldn't marry someone that doesn't love me. So'd i have to say that i'd marry the one that does love me. They would understand me better, and would even know when i'm upset or if something is bothering me.
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@Lunerian (493)
• Sweden
29 Jan 07
Polygami for the win!
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@niitesh (1656)
• India
30 Jan 07
pardon
@Rasnie (1137)
• Indonesia
30 Jan 07
It is hard to choose, the ideal is to marry some on that we love & also love us but if i have to choose i prefer choose married with some one that love us. After that we can learn to love him after married.
@niitesh (1656)
• India
30 Jan 07
i agree with you you will learn to love the one who loves youe
30 Jan 07
i prefer marry the person we both each others.
@aprilten (1966)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
neither. i belive that marriage is a commitment that we should go into wholeheartedly. if i would marry a person because he loves me then that's not wholeheart. i definitely wont marry someone who doesn't love me no matter how much i love him. that would be selfishness. i'm married now to someone i love and loves me in return.
• China
30 Jan 07
If I'm so unforthunately that I can't find the person I love him and he also love me,I would love to marry the one who loves me.I am a little selfish.