Why Men Usually Tried To Hide Their Tears???

Philippines
January 29, 2007 5:33am CST
I dont understand why men hide everytime they cried?Are they afraid to call them that they act like a women?Or to tell them that they are WEAK???For me seeing the man crying,it turns me on!!!why???Its because they are not afraid to show their deepest emotions...And they are just being REAL!!!And its always good to be Real!
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@creationhub (3066)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
I only pen my own personal view. I am a man. God created man as the leader to protect the woman. He has put into man a attribute to be brave and stand in the face of odds. As a man, I find it hard to show my tears even though my heart is bleeding. However, the last few years, I have a change in mind. It is good to shed tears. There is lots of benefits. One is you get healtier eyes. But I'd prefer to do it in my closet and locked.
• India
29 Jan 07
i too agree strongly with your points. Really it is the only thing that happen.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Ohhh, Thats exactlly what i want to know., why i post this as a discussions.Men are secretive and more tough when it comes to emotions.But everyone have a different point of views and i completely respect that! No worries!!!
@Bee1955 (3882)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I get all lovely dovey when my man cries. I geta tissue and wipe his eyes. Recently the only thing that made him cry was happiness. I hope we dont have any sorrowful ones for a long time.
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@jaizdeep (397)
• India
30 Jan 07
I think the sole reason men don't cry much especially in front on women is the fact that men are always assumed to be strong and have a strong heart which doesn't melt or have too many emotions therefore people sorta tend to giggle and laugh when men cry But personally i don't care my face shows whats going on in my heart if i feel bad about something i tend to cry and i don't feel shy doing that...sometimes its strange fro guys around me but then it don't seem to matter I think if u have emotions for someone if u love someone if someone u care for deeply is in trouble of any sort u feel bad and tears come out automatically They aren't made up or artificial they come out when ur heart really feels bad for something or someone
@lowey01 (223)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Crying is an output of one's deepest feelings. In fact, it's good for everyone. It really refreshes him/her. But men don't cry that easily. It takes a very serious emotional involvement in order for men to break down and cry. I don't know why, maybe we are built that way. I myself did cry in front of my girlfriend when we were about to break. For me, there's no one else that could replace her. I really loved her.
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@kash_if (201)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
men have this ability of keeping their fears and sorrows inside them selves from birth and by nature.. a scientific research proved that males have thrice more heart attacks than females . yes this is due to the same reason.. as women takes out their sorrows by expressing it as tears but men keep them inside in resulting to such uncertainities...
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• Israel
1 Feb 07
There is nothin bad if a man shed tears. Cos what i belieave is that lilly is most beautiful when bathed with morning due, while love is the lovliest when expressed with tears.
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@Akeela (2078)
• Trinidad And Tobago
29 Jan 07
beacuse we women at times take advantage of it and also the are afraid of rejection...
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@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
I appreciate men who cried. There is nothing to wrong if men cried. I love it when they show their weaknesses its like they are being real.
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@maru_047in (1007)
• India
29 Jan 07
cause they see lot of such things in the real life than womens and their emotions become hard and strong where as the emotions of the women ll be soft and they get the tears very soon than men and some of men are very emotion as we see they ll be soft hearted and they cant take the emotion and they show outside by crying.
• India
29 Jan 07
ya even i dn't uderstnd y is it so bcoz while living in a male dominating society men find it hard to show their emotions.........
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@nawaab (168)
• India
29 Jan 07
Undoubtedly Tears do make others to feel good but for those who see others weeping .. life gets tougher .. that is one of the major reason why men usually try yo hide their tears ..
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• India
29 Jan 07
because they dont wantt women to loose their control and dont want women to loose the moral support. they act as stubborn those times and dont melt and hide tears
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@popaioana (210)
• Romania
30 Jan 07
we love men cause they are strong....if they were like us.....do u think you would love them ?
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@kash_if (201)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
men have this ability of keeping their fears and sorrows inside them selves from birth and by nature.. a scientific research proved that males have thrice more heart attacks than females . yes this is due to the same reason.. as women takes out their sorrows by expressing it as tears but men keep them inside in resulting to such uncertainities...
@rockslide (689)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Its a man thing you would not understand. It shows weakness.
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@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
29 Jan 07
A lot of men associate tears with weakness, or being a wimp. I think a man who isn't afraid to cry is more of a man than a man who won't cry.
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@mariner68 (1276)
• India
29 Jan 07
i don't try to hide when i cry. i am a sentimental person and it does tend to relieve me, when i cry because of something or the other. and crying is not a crime. it is an emotion similar to laughing and there is no point in hiding it.
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@kerbausama (1335)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
man are though in nature and crying is a soft attitude.we fell crying is ashame coz make us like a woman. crying is not weak but personally it is embrassing,make you look stupid!
• India
29 Jan 07
bcoz they try to smarter than women but they cant
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@icelexy (236)
• Romania
29 Jan 07
I believe that most of the man think they will be considered weak if someones see them cry.Just my opinion.
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