I need ur answer......

India
January 29, 2007 12:30pm CST
hi friends just see my love story once and give me a good answer. I have a crush on my classmate. she is very pretty. i like her and i love her sincerely. but i know she is not having any interest on me just friendship only. I want to propose her.but i know she definitely rejects my love. but i want to tell my sincere love to her. how can i propose her? any answers please tell me.
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75 responses
• United States
29 Jan 07
Well if you are afraid to just talk to her about it how about writing her a letter. Just tell her you want her to know how you feel, but if she just wants to be friends that is ok too. Who knows, maybe she feels the same way she is just scared too. Break the ice and see what happens. If nothing else at least you got a good friend :)
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• India
29 Jan 07
by seeing ur replies iam getting dare to propse her thanku very much for giving me a good decision.
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@diego9774 (172)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I think you hit the nail onthe head when you stated "I have a CRUSH on my classmate". As her out on an informal date, something casual then take it from there. Don't propose though, It will only scare her away. Take things one step at a time and if it doesn't work out, then move on.Keep things real simple.
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• India
30 Jan 07
thx dude nice suggestion. i have rated u.
• India
30 Jan 07
thx dude nice suggestion. i rated u.
• United States
29 Jan 07
I think the best way to do so without freaking her out is to write her a letter, or a poem. tell her how you feel,tell her that you can understand if she doesnt feel that way about youa nd just wants to be friends, but let her know that you had to make your feelings known. Let her know that you will not pressure her into liking you any further and that even with all that is being said that you still want to continue being frieds. that just because you cant have her love in return doesnt mean that you cant have a friendship
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• United States
30 Jan 07
If you are afraid that she will reject a letter, how do you think it will be if she rejects you face to face? Very painful. I think you need to approach this gingerly.
• India
29 Jan 07
ya i can write a letter to her. but the only problem is if she rejects ,then she rejects my friendship also. i dont want that. i want always talking to her and live with her forever.
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• India
30 Jan 07
The same case was mine too.. But If u r true towards love be sure that u wud tell her the truth as fast as possible. If she is too pretty then remember u hav to do a lot of homework. U shud see that in all the ways she may accept ur proposal. If she talks wid u. Try to know her, If u hav a gud rapo with her always see what shez got in her mind or what really she thinks of u.(As a friend or BF), U can do this by meeting her personally. All u shud do is hold ur breathe when shez not going to accept the proposal. and remember one thing.. Shez not the only one for u. Remember this quote: Love is a gr8 type of energy. Since Energy can neither be created nor destroyed but changes from 1 form to another. So today 1 gal, tomorrow another." But this quote gives u confidence if u r in the losing side.Convincing may be one gr8 challenge for u.
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• India
7 Feb 07
thanks dude thanku very much.
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Well,I can say to you.Be strong to say to her "I REALLY LIKE YOU"honestly you are my dream girl in my life.Be patient to give her time to love you.And pray to God give the lady you want.Just wait to His answer,be positve thinking.Believe the girl you want can like you too,it will be happen.Have always time to her,find her secret.Make her always happy with you,The girl you want can inlove with you so musc.BE HONEST ALWAYS,your dream will be come true.I'm a girl too and married a man that I like year 2003 but now,He's my father of my son.We still together!
• India
30 Jan 07
well thanku and happy married life.
@woody5_16 (171)
• Egypt
7 Feb 07
uyou must be brave you must go to her and say i love you then if you feel that she smile ok good if she no move not make anything so leave her and after if you see that she smile to you you go and speak if not so you say to her that you will be freinds
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• India
7 Feb 07
ok friend . but now another problem occured. she saw mylot and she knew that i love her. so her response is negative. she is not talking to me now. wat can i do now?
@hariharbhat (1312)
• India
30 Jan 07
You are basically wrong.You know that she does not have that feelings for you,what you are having for her.It is better to convince yourself that the time is not ripe to find a soulmate and keep trying where both would meet with same inklings. I don't advice you to persuade her to love you as later in your life it may turn out to be a failure as the memory would be there that you have forced the one to love you thought there was not genuine love.
• India
30 Jan 07
yes that is one of the reason.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
30 Jan 07
If it were me and I only liked a guy as a friend and gave him no signs that I loved him and he proposed to me. I would think he was nuts,crazy and not totally there upstairs. If she doesn't love you then why don't you just be friends with her and find another to love.
• India
30 Jan 07
madam i didnt found any other girl to love. becoz love is pure. i dont want to find any other girl for my love. anyway thanks for ur reply.
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
29 Jan 07
If she doesn't feel like you do, DO NOT propose. Why set yourself up for rejections. Appreciate her and enjoy her friendship. If you damage that you won't even have the friendship. Time can change things and I suggest you let time pass.
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Thanks for your agreement, cool heads often do better in life. I hope this lad hears and heeds our words and keeps her as a friend!
29 Jan 07
I would keep things the way they are. If she obviously is not attracted to you, then to then act in spite of that is a breach and abuse of the freindship as you are putting this girl in an awkward situation. I would also say that there is always plenty more girls. i know what it is like to be in "love", I still think about a young lady who touched by life ppver 2 years ago. But, that is another story.
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• India
7 Feb 07
hey dude just go to her and tell ur feeling towards her if she like u she will definitely accept u otherwise u know just live her to think
• India
7 Feb 07
iam waiting for the time dude. i dont want to propose. all have seen this discusison. so i no need to propose her. she already knows this post. so i am waiting for the time.
@susanth4u (192)
• India
30 Jan 07
hey y u think tht she is not having love on u.............,better u propose her then later u can know whts the reason behind tht whether she loves u r not.......,hopefully u can c for the problem to b solved
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
29 Jan 07
how about asking her to a friendly dinner and a movie first. Let her get to know how you feel about her. she may be only hiding her feelings for some reason. I know from personal experience that just when you think love won't work, it sure did for me. good luck with it.
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• India
29 Jan 07
the government wont tax you for proposing the girl you love !! go and propose her n by the way girls look forward towards the daring guys !! who have the strength in the heart to propose someone even though he knows the consequences... I feel she would also appreciate it if you just express your feelings and no bothered what her reply is !! thats the game of love... who knows she may even start liking you seeing your truthfulness and strength in your heart !! all the best buddy... THREE CHEERS
• India
29 Jan 07
iam getting more dare by seeing all ur replies friends. i hope my love will sucess.
• India
29 Jan 07
jus keep speaking a lot to her. then do whatever she likes.make her feel that you wil do anything for her.carry on this for sometime let her affection towards you increase then you try to propose
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• India
29 Jan 07
thanku friend thanks for ur good suggestion. i will try to show my love to her.
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• United Arab Emirates
29 Jan 07
well whts ur age i mean its like marriage a girls needs a lot just den her classmates love....if ur her friend den u might be knowing her much better and her reaction also....valentine is close well show her ur love 2 her on that day and clearly tell her what u feel for ur girl....and leave the rest to God...and ya Best of luck...
• India
29 Jan 07
my age is 19 and her age also. iam also waiting for that day.
• India
30 Jan 07
its is very common to like the person around u....she is ur friend n if u propose her it might cause the end of ur friendship so just wait for few more time n try to find out if there is any soft corner in her heart for u. Try to make her feel that u cares her a lot n show ur affection in silent way through ur eyes. May b it melt her heart ans she start liking you, only then u should tell her wat u exactly feel for her, till then b her friend only......best of luck for ur love.
• India
30 Jan 07
thanku
@morocz66 (121)
• Romania
30 Jan 07
first i think you should know if she has an yinterest in you as a lover. if not she will simple reject u so you have to make something about it. oh and she probably knows u like her (cuz girls can sense that a lot faster than boys)so dont try to hide it. dont say it but act like it, when you hang out with her make her feel like a girl near a boy not like two friends if u know what i mean. i will give you a few tips but not here.. if u know a simple way of chating send me a prv message. hope this helps
@rohit2703 (201)
• India
30 Jan 07
Just go to her and give a smart kiss .if she also loves you too she will kiss you again otherwise slaps you.there ends your problem ,try this... 3nu can i know who is she ?
• India
30 Jan 07
hey man ur answer is very funny. but it will success in movies not in real life. it is the life matter anyway thnx for replying.
• India
30 Jan 07
hi dude actually ur situation is the thing which most of the guys have., so actually it was crush first then only its love isnt it, you approach the girl friendly and care for her and definitely dont forget to prove that u care for her a lot . because caring is the main thing in which a girl surrenders a boy, so care for her realy, and it would definitely work , dont be too shy, speak to her whenever you both are free and try to create situations to tell her that u care, indirectly, make her think about you, best of luck.
@multia (27)
• Finland
30 Jan 07
Man you shouldn't purpose anyone if you don't know one well enough. You should date for a while at least.