Why Men Love B*TCHES..

@sweetmia (455)
Philippines
January 30, 2007 3:59am CST
"a strong woman is much more desirable than a 'yes woman' who routinely sacrifices herself"i read that from the book called "WHY MEN LOVE B*TCHES". is that true? do guys really lose interest when a girl is "too nice"? is that why guys take girls for granted?
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
This may be true for some men, but not for all. I mean we all have our preferences right? If you were to ask me what I like.. a "strong" woman? or a "yes" woman? I think I'd like someone who is somewhat in between. =)
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
i guess balance is the key. but isnt that a bit hard? :(
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
well I'm sure you'll know if your getting too complacent with your man or your getting way too demanding of him. Do you have any concrete examples? Maybe I could help. Its hard just to discuss it in terms of just being a "strong" woman or a "yes" woman. =)
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
the book used cooking as an example. author said a girl shouldnt cook for a guy on their first date because it implies too much effort, do you agree?
@blindedfox (3258)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
It is true that there are some men who prefer 'feisty' women than women that are 'too nice'. Some men see this the other way around. Men are looking for that certain something that suits their profile. A timid guy wouldn't usually end up in good terms if his partner is also a timid woman. Men 'on-the-go' doesn't always find what they need from a woman of the same league. BUT in some cases, it isn't that way either. It all just boils down to one thing: "When a man (or a woman) starts taking things for granted, it is either there is something wrong with his partner or himself."
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks for the response.. but how do we know if we;re just being nice or..we're already 'too nice'? how do we know if we're crossing a line..? like from being simply submissive to a doormat?
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks for the response.. but how do we know if we;re just being nice or..we're already 'too nice'? how do we know if we're crossing a line..? like from being simply submissive to a doormat?
@anex84 (465)
• Bulgaria
30 Jan 07
I'm explaining it that way: It not just men its people , people want a challenge in life so a boring relationship sucks and nice people are boring you don't have to work at it and that is boring if you get everything you want from someone you end up not wanting that person because it becomes no fun to win all the time you need the bad to define the good the irony is if you get a lot of bad the good looks real good.. I dont practice that but I think that's mostly true...
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
i guess you're right. it is boring if your partnes just says 'yes' all the time..
@weezy250m (1893)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Actually, that is not an absolute truth. Men like Bchez because they can fck them then leave them. Men doesn't love btchez. They just want to fck them. Let's put it this way, so that you can understand what I am trying to say. Men, wants to only fck btchez. But every man, loves to marry a nice girl.
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thaanks for the response..