Do you come upon this situation...
By shobasvk
@shobasvk (787)
Malaysia
January 30, 2007 5:33am CST
when someone talk to you and their eyes are not looking at your eyes but some other spot on your body..? Or some may talk to you and their eyes are running all over you!! I had to come upon this knid of situation and i feel some kind odd about them...
5 responses
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Yes I have and it makes me so uncomfortable. I think your right somebody that does that you cant trust them. So beware of them.
@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
25 Sep 07
Dont reach a conclusion like that, besides you know not why those look. let just be more friendly the way we reason and respond to situations arround us.
jestically as questions as you cant tell exactly what you look like. why cant put it systematicaly and ask one whether he/she see something dirty in you.
then you will dicover yourself the more.
@ladyheart25 (1815)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Yes, I also experience this situation alot of times and really its not easy to approach them and stop them. Once i encounter this situation, I instantly stop the conversion and walk away. Thats the best thing to do before i get mad and shout at him, thats impolite to do.
@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
25 Sep 07
i think you should not be fending off at target. rather ask why one look at you in that way. i mean your question should be mannered. as this will enable you to know more about yourself.
thanx
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
9 Feb 08
I have come upon this situation many times. Short of wearing a constant supply of baggy shirts, when some idiot with bad manners does that my reactions are to bend over and look up at their eyes while I continue talking. Moving my body makes their eyes move, putting mine right in front of theirs, distracting their attention from my body parts. They get the drift. Some people just don't get it. I try to avoid those kind of situations. I dislike having to tell someone off. lol
@kingsix (46)
• Qatar
25 Aug 09
Just be kind enough to understand them. Some people does not know what they are doing or maybe it is done unintenctionally. You may ask them, "Anything wrong?"
or "Do you want to tell something?" It is sometimes better to find out what is their reason for looking at you that way? Cheers.
@cudgel (216)
• Nigeria
25 Sep 07
i am quiet different when it come to this type of situation.
i had such experience. but you know what i used to do is that, when i come across such a clean person like you. i do admired them, and proceed to as question about their cleaness, such as what kind of cream, soap and so on. that such is using. so that i can also subscribe to such venture. that i too will be able to be like them.
But when i come across another person with so many spots on the skin. I first observe if the face of such one is approachable, if yes, i will like to no more about those stuff also, so that i can recommed such a person to another stuff that can improve the skin.
but my way of observation is quiet differ to others because i dont observe one with a nasty nor mess look. rather i will first commend your stuff before i advice such on what to do.
