Single SINCE BIRTH

@sweetmia (455)
Philippines
January 30, 2007 6:16am CST
I am 23 years old and i have never had a real boyfriend. i know. there's must be something wrong with me. am i the only one? are there any other people here who have been single since birth? if not, how old were you when you have your first real relationship?
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55 responses
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Dear, your still that young! I was 27 when I had my boyfreind. And I was dreaming of getting marry by the age of 25 then. And stop saying that there's somthing wrong with you. You're just being presured by your surroundings as well as peer group. But believe me, the best is yet to come. Just enjoy life as it come. The right guy will just come even if you dont seek for him.
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
27? cool! so its not too late for me then =) thanks a lot for the response.. :)
@reezluv (377)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
is it important to you to have a bf?For me it's good to have a relationship where somone loved you or loved by the others..don't be so depressed because all of us will get their loved if they met somebody perfect for. My advice is, don't think that you don't have any bf you are a loser, but you still got the one that you love most..What is that?Yourself...:) just my 2cent.. p/s : you have a cute look :) for me...
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks. i wasnt really bothered until recently when everyone kept asking why i dont have a bf :(
@reezluv (377)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
yeah, don't bother it..give some times to you to do something worth in you life..like making money by yourself..:)
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks! i think i enjoy being single. .exceot when its a weekend and all my girlfriends have dates..lol
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Im single :D
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
me too. lol
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
maybe your the one i was waiting for :)
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
lol good one. i'll rate you for that. haha have a nice day!
@techsam (158)
• India
30 Jan 07
Well ma'am, you ain't the only one out there!! Iam 23, and still single, no relationships,nothing!! And is anything wrong with me... nopes.... I like a girl, and then i scrutinize, before even thinking about and blurting out my feelings and then somehow I get dissapointed.... But yes, we all do fall for someone at times, and so shall you!! Just wait. Life is full of oppurtunities, just stay on teh lookout. Its alos very strange, nothing is impossible, who know, tomorrow you may meet someone, or someone you know really well, might actually do something, that can make you an easy target for Cupid.... Looking forward to tomorrow?? Trust me so am I!! Cheerio!! :)
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
ei..thanks for the response! glad to know im not alone =)
@reezluv (377)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
yes..there will be one for you..just wait the prince charming :)loves will come to you...
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
thank you!! :D
@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
30 Jan 07
There is nothing wrong in you. I was single until 19 because I haven't found the right person but now I'm very happy with mi girlfriend. Also you will find the right person but there is a established period. It could be a mounth, a year or...
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks for the advice.. its just depressing sometimes..
• United States
30 Jan 07
dont be too hard on yourself.. there is someone out there for everyone.. and you just probably havent had the time in your life, its not always a bad thing because when you meet someone for real it will have been worth the wait
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
thank you =)
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
i think theres nothing wrong with you. Its just you are pressure by your environment and from the people around you. I myself had a first real relationship when i was 21. I had many suitors before that age or younger than that age but its just i dont want to enter into any relationship because i believe that it will come in the right time.
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thaaanks =)
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks..thats sweet of you
@multia (27)
• Finland
30 Jan 07
Well maybe its odd if you trying not to be single. But if you want to be single its ok.
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
i guess its odd then =)
@rlshaw (872)
• United States
30 Jan 07
There is nothing wrong with you.. You are smart.. Men give you alot of headaches :) I was 16 when I had my first real relationship .. we were together for 8 years.. I ended up marrying him but he was an awful guy and we divorced.. Don't worry about being single you are still young... take your time find a good person that deserves you.
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
aw.. im sorry to hear that.. thanks for the advise
@tomoe_spy (260)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
There's nothing wrong with you, it only means that the right time and right guy for you hasn't come yet you have to be patient enough besides being 23 and single is still young enough to have a serious commitment, actually my aunt got her first relationship when she was at her 30s, so there's nothing wrong with at 23 and staying single besides just enjoy being single since it will be the time you could do all the crazy things you want to do like non stop partying/clubbing, so just enjoy life and always look on the bright side
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
i guess you're right. i just have to tell my friends to stop asking me why im still single. =)
@baby88 (696)
• Singapore
30 Jan 07
hi my dear friend, for wat i see from ur few lines of words i really can't tell wat's wrong with you. i can only say u r perfectly alright as there's also alot of people without boyfriend or girlfriend n not only you. u r still very young n still hv alot of time to search for ur right one. your time will come believe me. for me i got my first bf at the age of 16. it was very sweet but this was only wat they so called puppy love n it won't last too long. at the mean time just enjoy urself for being single n don't worried too much ok?
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
will try.. =) thanksssss
@raveena (1356)
• India
30 Jan 07
There is a time for everything that is what I feel and no matter what it is come to you. You should not feel you are single. Not having a steady boyfriend does not certify that their is something wrong with you.
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@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks! it doesnt bother me that much..its just that lately my girlfriends have been telling me.. and almost everyone is trying to set me up, like theres a deadline of something
@Dolcerina (3379)
• Hungary
30 Jan 07
It is very strange. Sorry to say but it is not normal. Maybe you are too closed, aren't you. Or maybe the men think, that you are too proud. I do not know you, but do you smile to the people? Do you look into their eyes? It is very important in communicating. Are you affraid of the good? Men like the simple women. So try to be simple, not complicated. The men scare of the too beautiful women also, so if you are really beautiful, you must be really very kind to encourage them.
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
thanks for the response! i dont think im too close nor too proud. definitely NOT too beautiful! lol i dunno..
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@Dolcerina (3379)
• Hungary
31 Jan 07
Have you thought about to change your glasses into contact lens? I do not know exactly why, but the people with glasses are not attractive. The glasses like a gate. It is not so simple to fall in love with somebody who has glasses. Maybe it sounds funny,but it is true.
@vendan (127)
• India
2 Feb 07
Dont worry.. Im here..
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
ahahah thanks for being there
@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
This is my first relationship and I just had this relationship when I was just 26 and meeting my gf was also by accident. So, you can imagine if I haven't stumbled upon her I might be 27 and single. Don't loose hope. The world is loaded with people.
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
i guess youre right..thanks
@rajikoshy (743)
• India
1 Feb 07
there is nothing wrong with you some people dont have time some people dont try for it
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
thaaaanks!
• India
1 Feb 07
hey frnd i am 24 and still single ya its depressing but we shuld wait for our right partner...hope the best comes in ur life soon.
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
goodluck to us! hehehe
@Gwapako_28 (2142)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Its your choice being a single.Maybe you didnt found the right one yet.I guess, your not the only person who have that situation.Your still too young anyways.Goodluck!
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
thaankss
@frinces (419)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
You're not alone. I am 25 years old now and yet I still don't have a boyfriend. I tried to have a pseudo-boyfriend but it didn't last. I guess, it is fate.
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
thanks!good luck to us
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
I guess you are still young, don't bother too much about it. Some people get marry at the age of 40 and there's nothing wrong with them. Having no boyfriend is not a loss, instead focus on things that will improve your career. And the rest is up to destiny.
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
thanks.........
@mayenskie (1308)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
being single is still good. a friend of mine never had a bf since birth too and yet shes having the time of her life. its not that nobody courted her. she had crushes but by the time these guys started to notice her she runs or hides away! hahahahha
@sweetmia (455)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
thanks for the response