Please guys need your help here..

@k3tk3t (3128)
Philippines
January 30, 2007 6:38am CST
Do you think it is better that moms stay home with there kids and there father do the job for them?please need your advice.
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5 responses
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
It depends on each family.some mom want their kids to grow up in their shadows..so in this case,it's wise to stay at home looking after their kids and the dad must go to work to fed their family.But if they are having financial problems,then both are wise to go for work to get all sufficient for their family.The husband and the wife should discuss together about this matter..It is a good solution for this.
@k3tk3t (3128)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
thanks
@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
30 Jan 07
If that's what the mother and father want for themselves and the children, then yes.
@k3tk3t (3128)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
i mean do you think it is okey that the mother go to abroad and work while the father is here?
@azriel (2107)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
I think it depends on the arrangement of both husband and wife. Whichever one works for them, then they should do it. If the husband can generate more income than the wife, then he should be the one to work. And vice versa. But if the kids are still young, its good to have the mother stay at home to take care of them.
@drpriti (94)
• India
14 Feb 07
If u are financially sound then it's better that moms should stay at home or do a part time job,or work from home for 1-2 hours on a computer, when your husband is back home. When younger kids are with their mothers they find themselves secure, safe and problems such as bed wetting,thumb sucking mostly do not arise.
@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
That's usually how the generic family chart goes. But at today's times I believe in equal responsibility for both parties. Me and my girlfriend had to babysit my twin nieces for 2 months and each of us had to take them along work and do everything a parent would do. My girlfriend had her modeling career while I had my real estate and I.T consultancy to juggle about. My conclusion: Personally, I think both husband and wife should share the responsibility of taking care of the kids. I learned how to appreciate what my mom has done for me more. It was really, really hard but after that 2 months of playing parents my girlfriend grew so attached to my nieces that she was teasing me and wanted to have babies with me. The mother also has dreams for herself and it would be unfair if we just let the mom cooped up in the house with the kids. That's why mothers get so cranky. The reason why we had to babysit was because their mom was involved into a car accident and needed rehab. She's fine now. She apologized about the burden but it was nothing really.