Online Love !! Is it possible??

@saunty (604)
India
January 30, 2007 2:08pm CST
So many boys and gals gossip for hours on internet..so many of them propose each other meanwhile and in most of the cases they even do accept each other. What you people think..can relationship like this be flourished???
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24 responses
• India
2 Feb 07
I believe there's nothing nicer than genuine love. Though most people on inetrnet fake their identities but there are some genuine real love cases too. I know two people who met each other on internet and married. Only thing thats important is when engaging in a relation one should not be in too much deep into the relation until one has got all the information about that person and verified it. So i would say if love is genuine its beautiful.
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@saunty (604)
• India
3 Feb 07
Hmm !! so that means we cant simply deny that online love is not possible...there is definitely some possibility of a successful love story on internet . Well , nice hearng this...keep earning ...
@ravi9793 (32)
• India
31 Jan 07
yaa..It is possible.I have seen 2-3 cases in my life.After their love ..they married. I wud also fall in love..if I found any love like you...u r so sweet n beautiful....just kiding
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@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
lol !! its ok mate...i m use to it now..
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@girl079 (147)
• Malta
30 Jan 07
I think that a relationship can be built online. However, at some point the male and female do have to meet. YOu can chat online for maybe 3 months or so. That way you can get to know each other before making a real date.
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
Yah !! but most of the time , even after chatting for months , when u meet that person, u find the reallity is something different and unwanted...so what should be the criteria to judge a person well on internet???
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@girl079 (147)
• Malta
31 Jan 07
I think that if you spend enough time in quality chat online you will have a fairly good understanding of the persons character. I think it even works out better because you can decide whether you like the person or not based on his character and not on his looks.
@fabwisp (1328)
31 Jan 07
I think you can form intense bonds from people online because everyone has the freedom to be who or what they want to be. but i think very few of these relationships would survive in the real world.
@saunty (604)
• India
3 Feb 07
Yah!! very few or almost non.!! cz mostly the relationships have a false and fake base , all resting on lies . Even though you feel the relationship as been tied to a tight bond..but it is not always so...
@opinder (423)
• India
31 Jan 07
when we say internet, we forget that there are real people sittig behind the computers. sure there are cases of people lying over the net as it is easy to hide your true identity. but there can be some real nice people too who genuinely like your views. and you can always meet....get to know the person......and maybe fall in love. online relationships hold as much chance as normal relationships do.
@saunty (604)
• India
3 Feb 07
Yah!! but it definitely hold some chance..but what you think would be the success rate of such a relationship...almost a virtual relationship with no real existence...
• India
31 Jan 07
i dont find anything wrong in online love..but in most cases online love will vanish all of a sudden..the most important thing regarding love is how well do u understand each other..if we could understand each other through chatting we can proceed with that relationship...but when its comes to the marriage..you should be very careful regarding online friends because they can be fraud !! we cant say a big "no" to online love...
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
yah !! very true..u have definitely paved the way for this problem of mine...i would rate u + for this....but stil i need some assurance about just about the pure and selfless online love...
• India
31 Jan 07
i think online love is possible because if u like her voice u like her whatever she said..u know she is the best person for ur life..u r in love with her..but before actually proposing her u should have meet her or do a web cam chat or some thing because it can be fake also..if its not fake and u know that she is perfect for u then go for it
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
yah !! i do agree with u , but the prob here is that , mere taking to a person or just watching him thru web cam , can i judge him well??
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
oh well, You got a point with that, having a relationship on the net is hard to believed...in fact 30% with that i think flourished and the rest are all heartbreaks and lies..coming online in the net, is just a past time, if u need someone to talked then dont hold yourself back with that..instead hooked up in the net...am pretty sure u will enjoy a lot..so take it or leave it..!
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
Hmmm !! first of all , how can u be so sure that 30% of them flourishes?? and simply talking to someone like a friend andt talking as a beloved ..both are much different thing...
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
At first, yes. But eventully, no. Because I dont beleive that you can truly love a person who you only meet over the internet.
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
why cant ?? there are so many ways to judge a person , you can have voice chat with him u can see him thru web cam and u can even talk to him thru cell phone...so how can u say so??
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@nawaab (168)
• India
31 Jan 07
Yes it is possible . I don not think any body can tell this better than me , as I myself experienced it .. and we are heading towards a good relationship . I would like to add net serves as a medium to start and to know each other . Another advantage is this that over here all you can see is one's inner self and not the outer look .So for example it you are talking to someone for 2 years and admire his views and thoughts . You will start liking him irrsoective of his looks .S o in this way I think net is even a better medium to find a true match
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
May be u think so...but its just the opposite of what is the reality...tes it may happen that somebody can be loved irrespective of his outer beauty..but his is not true that u can see the innerself of a person on net.. rather most of them says lie and go on saying lies till their benefit is confirmed....
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@cicci8331 (178)
• Pakistan
31 Jan 07
I don not think it is possible to fall in love oneline.In fact I dont think it is possible to fall in love.I don not believe in that word is a load of crap you either happy with the person you are shaggin or not?lol simple i have been here a bit now and i dont think i have spoken to one normal person.i dont think it is possible.
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
well !! i do agree with u ..but the way u said that its not possible to fall in love on internet, it not true. I have seen so many such cases in which the couple are so happy and satisfied even after meeting in real ilfe...but my concern is towards , for how long can a relation like this be carried on...??
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@amitavroy (4826)
• India
30 Jan 07
Too love a person I think you have to meet him personally. And when you love a person online you cannot meet him I am not talking about videoconferencing or looking through WebCams by him talking about talking face to face in front of each other which is very important. You cannot judge a person when he is online I think it is very artificial to judge a person when he is online and so online love is not possible
@saunty (604)
• India
31 Jan 07
Hmmmm !! so u mean to say online love is just fake...but what about all thcouples who have meet thr internet and have got married and stil leading a happy and contended life...??
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@omidmao (744)
• India
30 Jan 07
i think it is not nice ,, anyway it was good discussion , i really like this type of discussion , i give u + for this , thank u so much , be happy and good luck
@saunty (604)
• India
30 Jan 07
Actually!! this is not just a discussion topic for me, rather a very imp query from my point of view..but its nice getting such comment from me ..thanx
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• India
3 Feb 07
of course darling its possible
@sajjan (134)
• India
31 Jan 07
hmm i hav heard a lot of it, but wonder how one can fall for someone like this. \i think these are the people who feel insecured in life, who dont mingle with others easily
@popaioana (210)
• Romania
31 Jan 07
i think it is impossible to fall in love with someone.only by speeking on the internet
@danieldf (218)
• France
31 Jan 07
Yes of course I met my boyfriend in the internet
@suahsan (786)
• United States
31 Jan 07
yeah it is possible here now computer make this world so small so it is possible at all and i think it is good that you are finding your love on net sit home and find love...
@rohit2703 (201)
• India
31 Jan 07
LOVE is everywhere .love can be done in anyway.
• China
31 Jan 07
Of course, it is possible. My first boy friend was my first friend in internet. We known each other from internet, and he was my friend in ICQ. And we met with each other after sometimes talking in internet. Then we get in friend with each other....