Question about adding Friends. Or should I say...Not adding Friends
By devideddi
@devideddi (1435)
United States
January 30, 2007 10:56pm CST
If you request a person as a friend and that person chooses not to add you they click delete right? Well..Is there any way of knowing this? Will it still show up on your pending friends page or will it dissappear or will it say not approved or something? Anyone know?
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4 responses
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
31 Jan 07
If a person denies you, no, the only way to tell is if they are no longer pending and do not show up in your friends listing.
I think myLot does this to stop people from feeling rejected. LOL
But if someone rejects you and you have a way to track them, then that person my start rating you poorly. So, to prevent this, myLot did not include a rejection list.
Sorry.
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@nufoundglory (1353)
• Serbia And Montenegro
31 Jan 07
But i have a feeling that they would include this in the near future.
@Eisenherz (2908)
• Portugal
1 Feb 07
When you request a person to be added to your friends list but that person doesn't feels like you're worthy or interesting enough of being added, that person simply rejects it and you don't get to see anything, since it disappears from your pending requests lists. All you can do is try again.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
1 Feb 07
This is a question that I have wondered about for a while. I would imagine that they would be aware, because they must have generated the request in the first place. Therefore it would be apparent that the request was rejected when no pending friend request remained.
However, if a person is accepted as a friend and then deleted at a later date it may not be noticeable.
