what is most important to you in your relationship an why?

Trust and respect are the two things that are most important to me in a relationship. I cannot be with someone if I do not trust them or they do not trust me. I also can't be with someone who I don't respect and who doesn't respect me. Just so long as we both respect eachother, we will treat each other well. Also, so long as we trust each other, there will be no unnecessary arguments.

most important for me is trust, because without it our life would became full of doubt and i dont want that because it will cause too much dissapointment and heartache.

I feel honesty and trust is the most important thing in a relationship. If you can't trust and have honesty I personally think you don't have a relationship at all.