pragnent before marraige?

@humaaaa (1386)
Pakistan
January 31, 2007 2:30pm CST
Why getting pregnent before marraige is thought a bad thing?
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12 responses
@rajikoshy (741)
• India
2 Feb 07
its better not to get pregnant before marriage even after marriage at least for 3 years you should not get pregnant the reason is simple the husband and wife will have time for each other and spend some years enjoying. once you have children....then your attention is towards them, their problems, and after which you will never have enough time for each other. these three years are called Honeymooning time
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• United States
5 Feb 07
I agree! After you have kids--you never really have your spouse to yourself. The marriage usually becomes child centered.
@mnksmommy (301)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I do not think pregnancy before marriage is a bad thing. Married or not if two people are going to make a child together--they need to commit that the child is first and foremost. I think they should also be able to provide stability and be able to provide for the child. Pregnancy does not equal commitment as many single parents can attest to....Neither does marriage equal commitment. One should make sure that he/she choses the right mate. Because you are going to have to deal very closely with him/her for the next 18 plus years.
• United States
5 Feb 07
I would never have a child with a man who I was not married too. Why? It is a personal choice. I want him to prove that he is there for the long run and will support and care for his child.
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
31 Jan 07
because if the parents want to run from responsibility they can and they have not provided a loving family environment for the child prior to being pregnant
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
31 Jan 07
so just because a couple isnt married it means that they dont have a loving family environment? WOW ive never heard that one before, lol
@Manly001 (707)
• India
2 Feb 07
its a bad thing
• Egypt
2 Feb 07
i think the normal thing for the woman is getting pregnant after the marriage.and also it is safer for the woman to keep her husband instead of afraiding to loose him.and getting pregnant before the marriage not so common especially in my country.
• India
5 Feb 07
Bcoz it is like driving your car without your licence. Better to get your licence or else you will be into serious trouble
@sureshmoe (974)
• India
1 Feb 07
Yes..it is 100% wrong thing...The future husband think that my future wife has virginity. But what the women does? If u think u are in the place of Men...Do u accept if your wife has this before marriage...This is appicable for lovers also...
• United Arab Emirates
31 Jan 07
its haram....not save and not good for the mother as wel as the baby...in many ways..and i know u know it well..
@mx_aman (2101)
• India
1 Feb 07
I think getting pregnent before marriage is a sin..Marriage is all about trust, honesty, loyalty with respect to your partner...Well, You can have fun before marriage but under some limitations..I dont think that it is a bad thing to have fun under limitations
• India
1 Feb 07
thats the cake every girl has to enjoy if they don't take precaution !! there is nothing bad in having a physical relationship before marriage if you are marring the same guy !! else you have to have a truly casual relationship !! thats my take... i think simple and practical !!
• Canada
31 Jan 07
well depending on if you adn your partner is together or not, if not then your not able to rais a child alone, if your with your partner, then it dont seem like a problem aslong you you too can handle the responsiblty of a child
@asnisar (17)
• India
1 Feb 07
if you get pregnent you ll know...