Booh hooo! I'm so sad today..first time I'm disappointed with friends here

@greengal (4286)
United States
February 1, 2007 10:49am CST
Today is the first time I'm disappointed with my myLot friends..most of them have let me down:( I've started 3 discussions and have received only 2-6 responses?! Where are all my friends? Why haven't you replied yet..? I so eagerly logged into myLot a while ago to check how many responses I would have got..and only one or two..was so saaaad:( I didn't think I would say this someday..I guess everybody isn't as reliable as they seem..are they?
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@Marie2473 (8519)
• Sweden
1 Feb 07
I have a few friends that will reply at any cost and then most of them won´t.. Imagine if all of them would reply to all of my discussions - I would love it.. I make sure i reply to my friends discussions first and I keep my hopes up and hoping it will pay off in the end =)
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
1 Feb 07
That's so true, if all the friends on our list replied for sure, then we needn't worry if we got other responses or not! But sadly that isn't the case..I have some very good friends too, the rest...well, I needn't say anything more!
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@shineison (874)
• Uganda
1 Feb 07
dont be sad that like that may be your friends have not seen your discussions yet, when they will see your discussions they will comment on them,
@greengal (4286)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Thank you shineison:) Ya I know my friends will stop by, I was so sad in the morning hence this discussion! I'm over it..I shouldn't have complained!!
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@sunshinecup (7881)
1 Feb 07
And what of those 2-6 responses? Were they not important, not loyal, not loved?? Now pass the tissues. ;-) I have a few good freinds, that just can't let me down, even if they tried. Then I have few that have never seen my posts, LOL. It does make you scratch your head doesn't it?
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Not you sunshine, you know that:) I have a handful of good friends too and I know they will come around and respond someday..hehe...just had to blurt out the first thing in the morning! Oh ya,now I'm seriously wondering why some are even on my friends list!!
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@SplitZip (1490)
• Portugal
9 Feb 07
Sometimes people are busy and can't post. This week I haven't posted much, I read a few topics, but didn't have time to post. Well, of course, if they're posting to other topics, then maybe they didn't see your topics, or they had nothing to say, or they're ignoring you, or they're just waiting for you to reply to their topics first, or they just add random people to their list... I could go on with this possible scenario list! :D
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
9 Feb 07
LOL..I know,I know...well I'm all cheered up now, I got over my rant long ago, but my poor friends, they gotta read this anyways..hehe!
@SplitZip (1490)
• Portugal
9 Feb 07
Oh, this was posted 1 week ago! XD I really should check the posting time more often!
@greengal (4286)
• United States
9 Feb 07
lol!
@bigstret (484)
10 Feb 07
I never seem to recieve many replies : ( So have desided to add a few more new friends, hope you will be one of them, smiles Maybe your friends are having a day off line lol
@greengal (4286)
• United States
10 Feb 07
sure, have accepted your request:) Will take a look at your discussions in a while. well I started this discussion almost a week ago, was ranting for no reason..lol! I have some good friends here.
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
9 Feb 07
i am so sorry but last friday my computer got a virus and i was without a computer until this past monday night. so please forgive me for not be able to respond till now.
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
9 Feb 07
Awww I understand Missy, thanks for responding. Maybe I was a bit too upset, but I immediately realised I have wonderful friends here:)
@BittyBiddy (2903)
• Ireland
4 Feb 07
I think discussions are a bit of a hit and miss job. I've posted a good few discussions but I know that not everyone responds to all of them. I can't expect them to as they're not going to be interested in everything I want to discuss. I'm not interested in all of their discussions, but I do reply to some of their discussions as often as I can.
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Hmm ya I realized that too..thanks for stopping by BittyBiddy:)
@SetoKun (287)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
I envy you because its your first time. Unlike me, I'm always disappointed. I hope I can get good friends who will reply to my discussions. You are still lucky so you shouldn't feel bad.
@greengal (4286)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Oh don't worry Setokun, you've just started. You are in my friends list and will surely take a look at your discussions. Give it some time, you will make very good friends here:) You can rely on me, if your discussions interest my response is assured..have a gr8 day!
• United States
2 Feb 07
Don't be sad or disappointed, it's possible that many of your friends don't have the 'notify is on' button on, or they would have responded. All my 'notify' buttons are on so I will respond to your discussions. If you happen to have a discussion that I know nothing about chances are I won't respond to it but otherwise I will :-) Keep smiling and keep posting :-)
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@greengal (4286)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Thanks a ton awesome:) I really shouldn't hace complained you know..so stupid of me..hehe! I respond to discussions which interest me too so don't worry about not responding to all of them.
@buenavida (8213)
• Sweden
11 Feb 07
Well I have discussions where I have got 0 or just 1 answer, no big deal. There are so many discussion going on here so people just can´t find and answer all of them. But I feel great of course if I start a discussion that gets many answers.
• India
10 Feb 07
i have received many answers in my discussion .
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