which do u prefer love or arranged marriage.....??

India
February 1, 2007 10:50am CST
there are many kinds of marriages followed all over the world... specially in india mostly arranged marriages take place where the parents select the girl for their boy or vice versa.... and as it has been surveyed tht arranged marriages work... however in usa or uk or other countries hardly concept of arrange marriages are there so they are sucessfull..... so tell me people does it happen only in india love marriages dont much work out.... and whc do u think love is better or arranged..... ur response is important...trust me......
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@simplysue (631)
• United States
1 Feb 07
We don't have arranged marriages in my country. We have the feedom to choose our own mate for life however, we also have a very high divorse rate. I'm not sure if arranged marriage is better or worse than a marriage of love. I would think that every case would be different as a marriage will always take compromise and trust no matter if it is of love or arranged.This is an interesting question.
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• India
2 Feb 07
thanx for ur reply.... i m delima myself... my parents want me to get amrried.... but i m so confused.....
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@aidonia (4210)
• Greece
2 Feb 07
How nice to see you gave to simplesue the best response.She is a good friend of mine and always her responses are very qualitative.
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• India
2 Feb 07
ya i liked her reply.... well tis was whn i did not add u as a friend.... but markin someones as a good reponse has nothg to do with frdship right.....
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@zonaib (259)
1 Feb 07
love marriage
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@aidonia (4210)
• Greece
1 Feb 07
Of course the more important is the love.Don't get me wrong i don't mean that he marriage from love will be more successfully than the arranged but how ever the end will be the knowledge that it was your choose and when you did it you was in love is enough.We can live with our mistakes when we know they was our choose.
@yogesh66 (1117)
• India
1 Feb 07
Arrange marriage is good for me. happy mylot day.
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• United States
3 Feb 07
I perfer love over arranged marrage. I much rather be with someone I know I will be happy with, instead of someone who I may not get along with. Arranged marrage isn't really a big thing anymore.
• India
3 Feb 07
wht i think tht in love marriage u already knw abt tht person...so marryin tht person is normal...whn its arranged u get to knw new thg abt tht person each day like ungrappin a gift each day....wht u think abt tis thought.....
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
i prefer love definitely. for me it is like 'i kill myself' if i choose arranged marriage. it is so hard to be with someone you not really love, right?
• India
3 Feb 07
love eventually gets generated dont u think so... means if u r livin with one perosn u tend u like him or her specially if tht person is sweet and all..... well i m very clear abt tis concept... becos in india arange marriages work out the best.... i dunno abt other countries....
• India
26 Feb 07
we can't say arrengged marrages are always wright,they r only the part of rituals that developed in olden days,but now a days in some places ,it is utilised for taking the dowry ,i think love marriages are better because they understand each oter,,,,,,but it may also breaks up because ,it is difficult to make humans comfretable...............
• India
10 Feb 07
i prefer both marriages but there is love and trust is very necessary.
@babyjane (1395)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
I'd prefer love marriage. Imagine yourself being with somebody whom you didn't know. It's like you are killing your heart's right.