on a first date what do you find to talk about?

@yanjiaren (9050)
February 1, 2007 11:41am CST
i like deep discussions..terrible isn't it? but i like the other person to open up first..see what he is interested in..feed his ego a bit..lol
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@justreal (2369)
• Canada
1 Feb 07
Anything overly sensitive should have been written or spoken on the phone or internet already so you'll know a lot about them. Keep it causal, keep it light, and don't talk about ex's. Don't give details, and if you see that they have a grimace or fairly serious look, you have gone too far and need to backtrack to a lighter mood. The whole point of the first meeting is to see if there is a physical chemistry and if you like the person. It's not to get at their history or their financial troubles or any other in depth issue. It is pretty much superficial. Talk about your family and kids, and just keep it light hearted.
@yanjiaren (9050)
1 Feb 07
nice one and congrats on your thousandth post lol
• Romania
1 Feb 07
It depeneds of the person,but mostly i talk of something that she likes and see what kind of things she likes.
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@yanjiaren (9050)
1 Feb 07
like me eh?
@jauhar (29)
1 Feb 07
i like to talk about a bit of there background and family life, in order to get to know that person more.
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@yanjiaren (9050)
1 Feb 07
very sensible.. like how much does your dad make lol?