Is it wrong to keep SOME things from your spouse?

@shivanm (211)
Trinidad And Tobago
February 1, 2007 11:49pm CST
I did not tell mine that I am on Mylot simply because I can discuss alot of things freely without causing hurt or causing problems. We are very much in love but I think that some things can be kept personal as long as you are being faithful and fair and not bad talking the other behind their back.
3 responses
@nudshanie (360)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 07
I also didn't tell my husband that I'm on myLot....and I don't think that is wrong.
@shivanm (211)
• Trinidad And Tobago
2 Feb 07
Thanks, I don't feel that bad now.
@shivanm (211)
• Trinidad And Tobago
2 Feb 07
Cute baby. That's not you right? Or else we would have a super genius on Mylot!!! lol.
@minerc (1373)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I tell my spouse everything, I wouldnt hide things from him. He wouldnt get mad at me for things, if I did something he disagreed with then we would talk he would give me his input about it and then it is whatever I want to do.
@shivanm (211)
• Trinidad And Tobago
2 Feb 07
I agree but I am not being unfaithful and unfair. I am not talking about her behind her back. I personally don't think it's wrong to have friends that she doesn't know about.
• India
2 Feb 07
if something that is related with your and hers too its better disclose
@shivanm (211)
• Trinidad And Tobago
2 Feb 07
I don't quite understand what you are saying, sorry.