Why do some girls love more than one person at a time?

@ajithlal (14564)
India
February 2, 2007 9:37am CST
This happened to one of my friend. He was in love with a girl. He proposed her and she accepted and both were like love birds and were in true love. He was in deeep love with her. One day everything changed suddenly . The girl told him that her family has fixed her marriage and she has to marry the person, but the truth is it was a love marriage and not arranged marriage. The boy was from the college she was studied and some of my friends told that they were in love and they were going to married and it was love marriage. Sometimes I dont understand. How is it possible for a person to love more than one person at a time and to be able to choose between the best? Do the girls truely love a person with their heart or they simply choose between people they love?
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@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I love two different men...and I love them both very much AND they know/knew about each other....one is my husband who is wonderful and I love him dearly and the other was my lover and best friend for many yrs...How is it possible? I love them both for very different reasons..they are very different ppl and I cherish everythign about each of them...
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
2 Feb 07
As long as love never hurts I think as said by others everything is fair in love.
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@marciascott (25557)
• United States
4 Feb 07
Women do it and men do it too. They can love two people. but seems like you always love more than the other, so that's who you end up with, and sometimes it can be a mistake.
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
25 Nov 12
I also think that both of them does it. I think most probably it is attraction than anything else.
@crystal8577 (1470)
• United States
2 Feb 07
The heart is capable of loving many people on different levels. I have 3 daughters I love very much. I still have room in my heart for more kids, my family, friends, husband. I have loved more than one male at a time. It was on different levels though. I think that is just what happens sometimes.
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
2 Feb 07
Thanks for the opinion. Now I can understand why people love more than one person at a time.
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@sunny1984 (640)
• India
24 Feb 07
Becouse they dont wnat the love in response the want the physical connection only.
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• India
28 Mar 07
Because LOVE IS BLIND
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@ajithlal (14564)
• India
14 Nov 12
I do not think it is good to love more than one person and being unfaithful to the other.
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
26 Mar 07
Well, I do'nt think it is just girls who do this. Men do it too and one good example is my husband. He felt in love with some one else and claimed that the girl was feeling the same way about him. I e-mailed the girl and she told me she didn't want anything to do with him and she was not in love at all. I believed everything she told me because I know my husband can get emotional attached to people very easily than others. And sometimes he would create this imaginary world for them. That almost ended our marriage, but since he didn't do anything physical with her and told me he still loves me, I took him back. We are working on keeping him from doing it again with someone else. And I hope he won't do that to me again because I don't know how I will take it this time around. I love him with all my heart and I would never cheat on him or be unfaithful in any way either physically or emotionally. So, to answer your question yes we love our men the best way we can. It is possible for people to easily fall out of love just like it was easy to fall in it in the first place.
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@shooie (4989)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Well I followed my heart and married the man I loved. Maybe she loved your friend like we love our friends. But maybe she was In love with him. You can love some one and not be in love with them.
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