what would you do if you knew your friend was having an affair?

United States
October 10, 2006 1:01pm CST
if you are very good friends with a husband wife couple and you knew one of them was having an affair what would you do?
12 responses
@diju03 (535)
11 Oct 06
i would try talking to him. try to make some sense. if he doesnt respond i would beat him up and leave it at that
11 Oct 06
Yes but make sure you hit him in the nuts when you beat him!
@varuntr (644)
• India
10 Oct 06
i don't know..............
• India
11 Oct 06
same here
• United States
11 Oct 06
thank you for your reply :)
11 Oct 06
You have to try and convince your friend to either end the affair or confess to their partner and end the relationship. Its not fair on the partner being cheated on and you will feel guilty for not telling the partner even though you've done nothing wrong.
11 Oct 06
Sorry, i didnt think the first response had posted so i wrote it again
@britishyip (1614)
• India
10 Oct 06
hmmm.. will try to conveince him to not to destroy thr family.. and stick to what he/she have..
• United States
11 Oct 06
Thank you for your reply :)
• Australia
12 Oct 06
Does the person who is cheating know that you know they are cheating?
• United States
12 Oct 06
try to go on like nothing was happening, ive had this done before and it didnt ture out pretty by telling that husband that she was having an affair, so i would just tell her i didnt wanna hear about it and go on being friends like it never happened
• India
12 Oct 06
i would first check on the person whom my friend is in affair with and if he is a trustable and good one then i woul be with there side for any help .if that person is not then i will do any thing to break it up also.
@pormadi (1300)
• Indonesia
12 Oct 06
I'll try to give some recommendation, but the decision depends on them
12 Oct 06
Talk to them, have them discover what it is their relationship lacks so badly that they feel the need to look for it outside of the relationship. Hopefully turn their direction back to looking within the relationship and repairing it rather than running for the hills at the first sign of snow.
@kdarrell (1566)
• Canada
11 Oct 06
If I new one of them was having an affair, I would try to persuade them to come clean. If not, probably not much as I don't feel it would be my place to tell on them.
@anand20 (214)
• India
11 Oct 06
i will beat the holly hell out of him
11 Oct 06
You have to try and concince them to either end the affair or tell their partner its over. Your loyalty is to your friend, but if it was me, i'd feel guilty that i knew what my friend was up to behind their partners back!!