How would you liked to be asked out?

United States
February 4, 2007 5:47pm CST
this is geared twords men and woman. If someone asked you out how would you prefer it be done? i personally would like to hear their voice so any way that would happen weather it b by phone or in person i wouldnt care.
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@gwenb143 (20)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Actually it doesn't matter how, as long as he asks me out (especiall if I like him)! =) I hate it when men try to 'feel' you out to see if you like them before they say anything. Just ask!
• United States
5 Feb 07
hmm actually i might take that into consideration next time i ask someone out...if i do. lol. you get top post! ^-^
• United States
5 Feb 07
I'm sure you will. Just be confident and cool when you do it. You know, casual. Girls like confidence in a guy. I'm sure you'll find that out. =)
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@blakky (137)
• Australia
6 Feb 07
i really don't mind how people do it. it seems a lot these days is done by email and particularly SMS but i don't have a problem with that because i know a lot of guys are quite shy and if this makes it easier for them to get started that's cool
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• United States
6 Feb 07
actually i heard of this email thing starting up somewhere but i also heard that it was a bad thing to do because some girls are mean and keep it as physical evidense to use against you socially. 0.0 glad to her that your nice though ;) kudos for that
• Belgium
5 Feb 07
I'd actually prefer to be the one asking the woman out. I'd first get to know her and only do it once I'm pretty sure we've got a good relationship starting off. However, if someone did ask me out I'd like it to be face to face. I don't know why but complete contact with the person seems imperial.
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• United States
6 Feb 07
ah i see you like to take the more gutsy route. thats always good and probably displays more confidense 0.0 good for you ^-^ thanks for the response!
@writerx1 (808)
• United States
5 Feb 07
It does not matter on how they would ask me as long as they gave me a notice.
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• United States
5 Feb 07
simple enough XD thanks for the comment writerx1!
5 Feb 07
Well i guess i prefer being asked. although i shouldn't really say this i'm married, but lets say i was single and not madly i love with my wife. i'd be happy to be asked, since i'd probably ramble and make no sense. (rather like this) I wouldn't really care eithe buddy, aslong as it was a robot or something lol =) Kudos! ~Joey
• United States
5 Feb 07
WOOT finally a guy comment XD thanks for the response man. its much easier when the girls ask isnt it ;) but thats only happened to me once and it was in person. WAIT TWICE. but that girl was a ********************** and i hate her to this day. mumble mumble . that one was over the phone.
@cassidy22 (2975)
• United States
5 Feb 07
for first dates, in person is best, but over the phone isn't bad. NEVER EVER call me at work, though. Bad idea! And yes, plenty of days in advance. Anyone who gives short notice, just makes me feel like they don't really care, if they didn't put enough thought in to ask me with enough time for ME to plan. If you've been dating for a while and things are more casual, emails or texting can work too.
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• United States
5 Feb 07
again with the days in advance thats cool 0.o hey wait how come i only see girls posting on this .
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
4 Feb 07
I prefer to be asked out either in person or on the phone. But my biggest thing is NOT the day before, give me a few days ahead to plan.
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• United States
5 Feb 07
you so u like to at least hear the person speaking to huh. thats a good thing. thanks for your response ^-^