How often do you ask for HELP?

Philippines
February 4, 2007 7:35pm CST
Asking for help on most things that we are having problems with is often a thing that would make us think twice! In a way we tend to think that we can have it resolved on our end without somebody elses help or we could really ask somebody to help us on having it quickly taken cared of without spending too much time on figuring out what is the solution. In my case I usually think of the consequences of which decision I take. But in life's dilemmas i usually ask help but not fully, i ask it from my family and friends coz they are usuaaly the one's who could give you the needed support . Its not bad to ask some help... but the question is on how often should we ask for it?
1 person likes this
3 responses
@soumodeep (945)
• India
5 Feb 07
I always think of consequences before I ask for help. I never ask for help without thinking but I do need help very often. I only get help from the person i trust. But I always try to be independent and try not to ask for help. I try to solve every problem by myself.
@patootie (3593)
5 Feb 07
I think if we stop and take a few moments to work through a problem we can usually find a way to do things .. I always try and do things myself so that when I really do need help i don't have to worry about asking someone to help me ..
5 Feb 07
Normally i deal with things on my own, unless i really need help with something. I wouldn't say it's often and guessing would be quite hard. Personally i think i should ask sometimes, but then again those i ask sometimes let ya down or share your problems with others. i'm lucky to have such a supportive wife =) Kudos ~Joey
@kathy77 (7488)
• Australia
5 Feb 07
Oh this one it all depends on what I need help with, but if it is too difficult for me to work it out for myself then of course I will ask for my family, friend or someone else to help me with the problem. It is great when you have a good family and you can ask for their help but not all the time that is why we have to have friends as well so we can learn from them as maybe their opinion maybe a better solution to our problem.