Are you willingly to risk every thing?
• United States
10 Feb 07
I like the way you worded it..choose to love. Loving someone is so much more than an action and a feeling, its a decision and a choice..not about hte other person as much as it is about yourself as well. You CHOOSE to let go of your inhibitions, your fears, and risk..yes RISK getting hurt...but when its really...you are taking a risk on someone you've already trusted not to hurt you. For me, the 3 biggest things in any relationship for myself are communication, trust and honesty. This goes for friendships, not just relationships and love. My relationship wtih my husband was based on a best of friends level for two years, before we ever started dating, so we already had formed that trust between each other, that it didnt feel like I was taking any risks at all. I honestly dont know when I "fell in love with him"...I just remember the day I realized how much life wouldnt be the same if he werent an integral part of it.
9 Feb 07
i agree with you..i also cant understand the question..but if in case he is asking about taking risks in a relationship..well yea..i do take risks..because risks are life's challenges that if not not taken then it will be left undiscovered..so its like you'll be missing a lot..you'll miss the happiness that it could have given and the lessons that you might have learned from hurting..