hey can we have two girl friends at a time and i don love them now
February 6, 2007 12:49am CST
hey i am confused i am having two girls .. now i am not interested in both but now i have started loving my best friend and she also loves me a lot ... please give a solution please..
• United States
6 Feb 07
MAKE SURE YOU THINK ABOUT THINGS BEFORE JUMPING IN WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND. OTHER GIRLS YOU CAN GET THEM AND LEAVE THEM BUT A BEST FRIEND IS HARD TO COME BY SO IF THIS IS AN INPULSE BACK AWAY, LET HER KNOW THAT YOU NEED HER FRIENDSHIP AND WOULD BE LOST WITHOUT IT. WHEN HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FRIEND YOU CAN ONLY MOVE FORWARD IF YOU BREAK UP WITH THAT FRIEND YOU MAY LOSE THEM FOR EVER..IF YOU ARE OKAY WITH TAKING THAT RISK (YOU KNOW IN YOUR HEART SHE IS THE ONE FOR YOU) THEN GO FOR IT.THINK ABOUT WHATS TO COME BEFORE YOU JUMP INTO IT. YOU WOULD HAVE TO BE HONESTLY READY TO SETTLE DOWN OR YOU MAY HURT YOUR BEST FRIEND FOREVER. WHEN PICKING A PERSOM TO HANG WITH/LOVE WE ALWAYS THINK THIS IS THE ONE BUT 9 TIMES OUT OF TEN IT IS NOT.THEN EACH GOES THIER OWN WAY IN LIFE BUT WITH A BEST FRIEND THINGS WILL BE SO DIFFERENT. SOME PEOPLE FINDS THEMSELF WITH THESE ISSUES:IT IS HARDER TO BREAK UP WITH A FRIEND BECAUSE YOU DO KNOW WANT TO HURT THEM * YOU DO NOT WANT TO LOSE THEM * AND YOU FIND YOURSELF STAYING IN A UNHAPPY RELATIONSHIP FOR YOU * THEN YOU FIND YOURSELF WANTING TO CHEAT OR DOING SO * WE ALL WANT THE BEST FOR OUR BEST FRIENDS AND IF YOU KNOW YOU ARE THING BEST THING FOR HER THEN GO FOR IT.
• Quezon City, Philippines
6 Feb 07
I would suggest you choose one that you really love and don't play with their feelings. It would hurt them very much if they will discover that you're just playing along with their feelings. How would you feel if someday you find yourself really in love with a person and then accepted you and later one day you discovered that she is playing along with you and doesn't really love you. It will hurt you badly. Don't say that it would never happen to you it will if you would be careless with other people's feelings.
6 Feb 07
Gosh! you have played girls? does your best friend know it? Tell your girls what's your real feelings with them. With regards to your best friend? I don't think he will believe you if you would court her 'coz she might think you just hurt her like you did with other girls. Better to decide it now than do later.
6 Feb 07
is your bestfriend one of the two girls you mention? if yes or no simple you should have to go with the one you love and get rid of the two and dont play with them. be honest if you dont like them and do not take advantage because they are interested in you. Be honest and at least have the courage to tell them and i dont understand why you are confused.