Moody

Saudi Arabia
February 6, 2007 3:01am CST
Hi everybody, speaking of moody people, i wanna know two things: First: are you the moody type? Second: Can you stand moody ppl? Third: How do you deal with a moody person ?
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• India
27 Feb 07
Well!! I am not of the moody type but I surely know its fundamentals. Standing moody peoples is your mentality amelioration towards such a created circumstance. All that you find yourself into with moody peoples is that you come across some behavior or demands from them all of a sudden & it is upto you whether you want to fulfill those demands or not. There is nothing stopping you in saying a firm NO to their moods & demands & that is the best way to teach such peoples a sense. If you concede to their moods & demands then they would dominate you & ask for all nuisances which will be embarrasing & frustrating both. Usually, try to be patient with such moody peoples till their mood subsides & they become normal again.
• Saudi Arabia
28 Feb 07
I always try 2 be patient but i myself experienced two moody ppl in my life, one is my ex gf and one is a colleague of mine and it was nothing but a headache and no matter how patient i was with them, damn it was real pain in the a$$ We all have our ups n' downs but that doesn't mean we give bull$!^^ to people. If i came across a situation where i have 2 deal with a moody person, surely i won't run away but i will make sure i keep some distance. As for when when their mood subsides or whether i wanna fulfill their demands, Surely this is something i'd never do or put as a priority. Thanx 4 the participation and lookin 2 hear more from u
@Anniedup (3652)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
27 Feb 07
Sorry I only respond now but I was swamped yesterday with that other nonsense, as you know, because you are one of my friends that came up for me. I understand and can handle moody people, most probably because I'm not a moody person at all. As long as they don't change moods every hour then I'm fine. A person needs to adjust to their new mood:) Take care my friend
• Saudi Arabia
27 Feb 07
Honestly i am not moody either. From my experience with moody people, they are nothing but a headache coz sometimes they're real cool and nice with you and all of a sudden they change mood when you don't expect it, moreover, they may turn on you. I always (as much as possible) kept moody people away from me unless dealing with them is a must then i always keep a distance. Thanx so much 4 ur response.
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@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
22 Feb 07
First not any more low tolerance for moody people to deal with moody people you have to understand them, and in my humble opinion, it is fear, yup, fear. I didn't have moody days I had moody years and a lot of them. and I was a walking talking example of a moody person, if some one had told me I would just bite their head off and hand it back to them.It was only after a great deal of self discovery that I realized that I lived with fear as a close and personal companion, it sure ruled my life, if you had asked me what I was afraid of I would have literally said everything. How did I get over this by having a room full of people tell me exactly how I affected them, I was hurt,devastated, insulted, and just hated them, but It took me a while to understand that they were telling me something I needed to know, and when I realized they were talking the absolute truth as they saw it, I understood that they were right, and I was able to make the change, I so desperately needed to do.
• Saudi Arabia
28 Feb 07
Thank you so much for your valuable participation, i have nothing 2 say but show respect and salute u as u were brave enought 2 face the problem instead of just ignoring it. Surely moody ppl affect their surroundings and i truly know they have their reasons but most of them and i am not saying all but most of them, don't really bother 2 resolove issue or they don't even care what damage and discomfort they might have caused the others. Again i really appreciate ur comments and i guess i must mark urs as the best response. Thank you again.
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
22 Feb 07
I am to an extent ... if i had a bad day... i surely get moody to an extent... if someone bothers me with that day...otherwise i dont think i am moody rather i am a little reserve kinda guy ... i just increase my patient level or leave them alone till they get their mood back ... normally i dont talk too much so it isnt much of a problem for me... i dont invite people to talk ... so i mostly stay out of trouble when it comes to dealing with moody people...and i think thats the best way to deal with it
• Saudi Arabia
28 Feb 07
Sometimes you can just stay away of moody ppl but there are other times where they are part of ur life and that would be the problem i had an ex gf who was extremely moody, damn man it was real hard on me. Thank you.
22 Feb 07
First: No, i am not a moody person. Two: NO, i cannot stand moody ppl, as they get u in a mood 2. Three: Best way is 2 LEAVE THEM ALONE and kick they @$$ later! lol
• Saudi Arabia
27 Feb 07
Hi there my friend, With some rephrasing on your post, i'd consider your answer is an ideal one for me. I ain't moody and i just don't feel comfortable with moody people and by the way long time no see huh