Do You Prefer To Sacrifice Just To SAVE Your Marriage???

Marriage - Marriage Life!
Philippines
February 6, 2007 6:31pm CST
There is no such things as perfect marriage!Unfaithful,irresponsible,alcoholic,drug addict,immature husband!My parents told me that sometimes,we need to sacrifice for the sake of our children & marriage!But how about our feelings???Until now, i am still confused about marriage life!How about you? Do you prefer to sacrifice just to save your marriage?
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8 responses
@ssh123 (31100)
• India
7 Feb 07
Millions and millions of families in India do not have to sacrifice anything to have a lasting marriage. The sacrifice, cheating and divorce is all western concept slowly entering our society. The society appreciates if husband and wife live in harmony and most people have children and if they are grown up they do not allow parents to think in such terms. Family bondage is so good, each one will live for other - I do not call it sacrifice. There is a joy and happiness in doing so.
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• Philippines
7 Feb 07
Yeah!Maybe!Do you think those people who tend to say those words sacrifice are people who dont know about being patience?
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I didnt know wealth was so rampant in India that there was no poverty and no sacrifice for family required. I guess then that since there is no need all have food and warmth and the only problems is sickness?
@mimatexas (1835)
• United States
7 Feb 07
If my husband would be unfaithful or beat me up I wouldn't sacrifice my marriage for the sake of our children or my marriage. No, I wouldn't.
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
if the problem in the family cannot solved then there is no need to sacrifice just to save the marriage. if the problem in the family is shallow,and you see that your partner admit his mistakes then it is time for you to forgive him. yes,the children are the most affected in this kind of situation when you get separated but i tell you they are more affected if they see both of you fighting each other. seek for a marriage counselor for an advise.
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
7 Feb 07
I did untill I begged my ex husband back when he told me now and then now looking back he wasn't worth it he was just a lieing, cheating, somebody
@shanhari (120)
• India
7 Feb 07
No not at all.
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• Philippines
9 Feb 07
we have to admit that nobody is perfect as well as there is no perfect marriage. but if you really love the person you marry,you should accept his imperfections,that is the essense of being inlove, you have to sacrifice, as sacrifice is the key to paradise,,LOL... for me, i am willing to sacrifice in the name of love... i hope in this answer i win the miss universe pageant..LMAO.... good day
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• Philippines
9 Feb 07
i am married already. most parents would try to save marriages because they have been there. sacrifice cannot be divorced with marriage. they go together. if you married the guy for his nice good qualities and accepted him for who and what he is, you should also be ready to accept the ugly side of his personality. they go together also. you cannot just choose and fell inlove with the guy only accepting the good side. everything should be accepted.
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
9 Feb 07
If we accept abuse or cheating we teach our children that it is okay behavior and we teach them to stay where they can be hurt. This is wrong and no sacrifice should be made. For the everyday problems we face and make sacrifice for to put clothes on the kids to feed the family to put a roof over their head this is the sacrifice we should make. This is how we teach our children to provide for their families.