I feel sad today

@SexyMhei (153)
Philippines
February 6, 2007 11:26pm CST
I feel sad. I have just visited my OB and she told me that I could qualify for VBAC, but I still have to wait for two years more before I think of getting pregnant again if I really want to undergo VBAC instead of CS. I am really longing for a child, I'm not getting any younger, but it turn out that I still have to wait for two more years! Maybe many of you already have kids or still too young to have one, but I don't know if there is anyone out there who understands how I feel. My husband seem to take it more lightly since he doesn't want to have a child yet, but I really wanted to have my own baby. It was like being denied of the only thing you have really wanted. :(
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@janmar (115)
• United States
7 Feb 07
Very sad. Especially after losing one child already I imagine. I understand the yearning. Even women who have children already go through a stage where it is an undeniable ache. But why not just opt for CS? VBAC isn't all that wonderful. Have you asked your OB if there are exercises you can do or a diet you can go on that will speed things up a bit? I don't know how old you are, but there are ladies having babies at over forty. Good luck to you.
@SexyMhei (153)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
Yes, it was painful and traumatic too. I heard there are risks with VBAC too, I'm not that familiar with it either, some of mylot members have given me the idea about VBAC and then I searched it through the internet, it sound okay, but it also seem a little bit dangerous. My Ob also told me that the baby has to be forcep which I don't like too much, what if it could harm my next child? I'm going on thirty this year, and I was hoping to bear a child younger that's whay I got married at the age of 27, and now, I still got to be 30 before I have a baby.
@jhrcsr (349)
• United States
7 Feb 07
I'm sorry, but I do not know what the acronyms VBAC and CS stand for. However, I am very sorry that you are going through this. *******HUGS***** Please know that we will be praying that a solution comes so that you may have a child.