Help! There is a girl...

@powemji (247)
Nigeria
October 11, 2006 1:53pm CST
who keep calling and sending text messages to me. I alreafy have my own sweetheart. Please advise me on what to do.
7 responses
@hellboi (664)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Well first you have to be wary of the girl's intention as well as yours. Is the girl asking for friendship or is she asking for more? And what are your intentions towards her? If you are well-secured with your relationship right now then you need not be bothered since you could only offer friendship to her. But if you feel that she is really pushing yourself that in a way could ruin your relationship then you should stay away from her. Politely decline her offers and advances towards you. And to help your relationship to stay stronger be honest with your sweetheart. Tell her everything that's been going on so that she will trust you and support you all throughout.
@powemji (247)
• Nigeria
28 Feb 07
I like this. I will think about it if it's going to work. You know, some girls when they want to get into your heart they use various means. What if she started using another person's phone?
@Kaeli72 (1230)
• United States
27 Feb 07
If telling the truth won't cut her off, then tell her you're gay. If that doesn't work, then next time she does call and you're with your sweetheart, have your girl answer the phone...but heavens, let your girl know what's going on. Perhaps another woman answering the phone might shake the stalker loose.
@powemji (247)
• Nigeria
28 Feb 07
Thank you Kaeli72
@FrancyDafne (2051)
• Italy
26 Feb 07
First of all an important question: is your sweetheart jealous? If yes you should stop her and tell her that you are already in a love story with a girl. If not, you could become friends, is it so strange to have a girl as a friend??!?
@powemji (247)
• Nigeria
27 Feb 07
that's a godly advice. thanks
• United States
11 Oct 06
Tell her to leave you alone and that you are in a relationship
@powemji (247)
• Nigeria
12 Oct 06
Thanks for your advice.
• United States
28 Feb 07
If she is calling you and texting you, she is very interested in you. I do not know how she got your phone number. Did you give it to her? Tell her about your sweetie and that you do not think you should continue this.
@simesc (248)
28 Feb 07
I have had this in the past with an ex. She kept calling my mobile, sending SMS, calling home....... It was so annoying, I kept telling her to stop and did not want to contact her. I tried everything. Ignoring her - still sent more and more sms telling her to go away - still sent more sms being nasty to her - more sms...... Some people will just not give up. You have to decide if you should tell your new sweetheart. If she does not know and then finds an sms on your phone she will think that you are doing something that you should not. If she trusts you and you can tell her what is happening, it could stop problems. But then again it could also make her worried and jealous. You know your sweetheart and what is best. Whichever you chose - I would send an sms and say "DO NO CONTACT ME EVER AGAIN" and then keep this on your phone. If there is ever any argument with your sweetheart, you can show her what you have sent.
@sweetee (423)
• Australia
28 Feb 07
i would just tell her you are already committed to someone else and you aren't interested in pursuing anything with her. if she doesn't take the hint just ignore her.