What attracted you FIRST to your partner?

United States
February 7, 2007 3:44pm CST
I was first attracted to how calm he was, everyone else that we were with (huge camping trip) was drunk and causing fights and problems. He was just sitting on the opposite side of the table from me, being quiet, trying to enjoy the night.
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• United States
8 Feb 07
She was completely insane and I was into that at the time. :)
@victor234 (506)
• Brazil
8 Feb 07
She is beautiful, funny! I love her!
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
he is so sweet and caring. i like the way he look at me...:)
@justreal (2364)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
Obviously the looks are going to attract me at first, but then I have to get to know the person as in personality and character wise and to know her better in that way. That is what is more important than looks. That's how I got to know my girlfriend.
@arwenrey (315)
• Philippines
7 Feb 07
My first attraction to my partner was his being consistent in communication and grabs all the time he can to be with me.
@thyst07 (2079)
• United States
7 Feb 07
I first realized that I was in love with my partner the second time I saw him. He invited me to his church small group, which then went out to dinner after the meeting. I was impressed by how real he was in this setting. No pretenses, no trying to impress anybody...he just was who he was. After dinner, we sat outside the restaurant and talked for about 3 hours about anything and everything. I loved that I could feel so comfortable talking to him for so long, and about so many things that most people would just never think of. I knew then that he was my match...and I'm still convinced.
• Belgium
7 Feb 07
An aspect in her facial expressions. I don't know why but it attracted me somehow.