Are you having trouble finding the right person to share your life with?

@WebMann (4731)
Canada
February 7, 2007 8:19pm CST
I spend the first 29 years of my life pretty messed up and one day I met the woman I would marry and my life took a turn for the better and now I am 54 and we are still together. What are you looking for?
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6 responses
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
I'm looking for a man that can love me for who i am and the one that can protect and provide me with anything and everything i need. A man that is responsible enough to take care of our family in the future.
@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
9 Feb 07
I was watching Oprah with my wife lastnight it was about getting what you want in life. They were so right on with how I believe it was scary. You need to make a list of the man of your dreams and believe he is out there. Go over that list often and make it detailed. It is amazing how well this works.
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Yes, Im turning 30 this year and still didn't find the right person to share my life with. I have this list of traits that i want to be in my future partner but in reality, I also know that he will just enter my life one day and I will just fell in love regardless of what he is maybe.
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@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
8 Feb 07
Well I hope you find the right one for you. Some people go through multiple marriage looking, I think it's better to wait. Keep reading your list of traits every day.
8 Feb 07
I'm very lucky because i have already found someone. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we have made plans to move in together at the same Uni in September of this year. I thought about the things i might miss but i don't think i'm a typical teenager. I don't like getting drunk and would never think of having a one night stand. My boyfriend is everything i could dream of and i think it would be stupid to give him up just because of our age.
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@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
9 Feb 07
Well I am glad to hear you are a sensible person. Who needs to get drunk to have fun anyways. I like to remember I am having a good time. You hold onto him then and I wish you a happy life together. :)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Let me share to you some stories of my friends who are really having trouble looking for the right one. I have friends who are turning 30 this year and since they are on that age already they can feel the pressure of really meeting the right person and getting married already. Right now, they are really having trouble finding the right person or say just meeting a man to hook up with them. They are already desperate to the extend of they do the first move just to be noticed by the guy.
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@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
8 Feb 07
That is sad when someone is looking so hard and can't find that person. I wish them all the luck. thanks for your response.
@nw1911guy (1131)
• United States
8 Feb 07
Hmm funny, I've spent the first 29 years of my life kind of messed up, though I haven't met anyone that appears they are going to become a loved one. I know I want someone that is going to be my best friend as well as my lover. She needs to be capable of intelligent conversation and thought. And She needs to be someone that makes me laugh. Someone I can laugh both with and at, because I know she'll spend plenty of time laughing at me. I think that covers it. lol
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@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
8 Feb 07
Wow you are looking for me. Ha :) Too bad I am already married and the fact that I'm a guy kind ruins the moment but I am sure you will find that special person. Maybe you need to go to places that are based on your hobbies and you just might find that person in places with like minded people. Get out there and find that person.
@coffebing (252)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 07
Im now 18..and my bf just ask me to get marry with him...but i still wanna continue my own life and dream..the situation is exactly opposite with yours..
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@WebMann (4731)
• Canada
8 Feb 07
Wow that seems so young to get married. There is so much life ahead of you. But some people marry that young and don't really care about what they might miss. However later in life, say at about 40, those thoughts of what you may have missed start cropping up if you don't keep your marriage really active. Good luck with your final choice.