Are girls a use and throw commodities?

@ruknaa (408)
India
February 8, 2007 7:01am CST
Somehow all boys seem so nice when you first meet them... They talk politely, listen to you and go to great lengths just to make you happy.... But the moment they screw you... you become a liability... and they just start avoiding you... have you also faced a similar situation?
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@mr_nerd (129)
• India
8 Feb 07
I feel sorry for you being a guy. What i feel is before starting any relationship make sure you want to have a long time or just a time pass relationship. If you find the guy is really loving or if he is genuine then go physical else avoid it. Its not that all guys want to use girls and atleast I am not among them.
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@ruknaa (408)
• India
8 Feb 07
the whole question is how to find a genuine guy... everybody looks great initially.. but as soon as their work is done they reveal their true self.
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@mr_nerd (129)
• India
9 Feb 07
Dear dont let them finish their work so easily. If it happens so easily and early then sorry to say that you are also part of it and you cant blame him.
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@ruknaa (408)
• India
9 Feb 07
ya u have a point
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• India
8 Feb 07
Its not so that all boys think of girls that way. Maybe if you've had such an experience that doesn't mean that all boys become bad, after all we all learn in life from our experiences. I respect all girls who have been my friends and girlfriends and even when i broke up with my girlfrnd we still remained good friends. So its part of lige when there are good times then there are bad ones too, so just take them in the strides and who knows you might find a better person in future.
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• India
8 Feb 07
Nope!!!! Y is this thinking? I think Gals are d bestest gift of God wuth whom u share and can lead a beautiful life.
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• United States
25 Feb 07
My mother always used to say to me, "Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?" I think these are very wise words indeed. There are men who objectify women - (treat them like objects) and have low opinions of women as people. There is no reason to "give away the milk for free." Wait until someone is ready to "buy the cow" and treat you right.
• United States
25 Feb 07
Oh, one more thing my sweet dear - change your avator. Why objectify yourself! Many men will do that enough for you already!
@ruknaa (408)
• India
26 Feb 07
very wise words indeed :) thanks. regarding avtaar... I sometimes like the attention. Its better to be observed and get irritated by that rather than sit in one corner and sulk around
• United States
20 Feb 07
Sorry to hear about that. But you shouldn't judge all guys because of one experience. For example I (not trying to brag or hit on you) am the type of person who makes up his mind and stick to it. If I truly love that person, then i would never throw them away or "screw" them. I am also the type of person who you could trust and talk to about the most serious discussions. So anyways, I hope that you will find someone more suitable.
@ruknaa (408)
• India
20 Feb 07
i wish there are more guys like u on this planet
• United States
21 Feb 07
thx ~~~