my exboyfriend got married shortly after our daughters baptism!?

United States
February 8, 2007 11:41pm CST
WHAT DO YOU Think of that?! now everytime i call the child support office, i say yea "he's living off his wife" ... they automatically think - I got involved with a married man plus that fact that she is 30 and im 25 looking like im 19 doesnt help either. Im NOT ashamed, AND i can see very clearly she is trying to make me feel ashamed. But iM NOT! IT was her deal to get involved. now one of these days he's gonna have to pay all at once and im pretty sure she will be FEELING IT then. I can tell whoever asks me about it, its her that should be ashamed. Dont you think?
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@coffebing (252)
• Malaysia
11 Feb 07
I feel sorry looking up your discussion.You are unlucky for you to know this unresponsible guy.I agree and definitely support what you are going to do.Don't get bully by anyone and stand up to protect yourself because justice is on your side.
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• United States
18 Feb 07
i've figured it out after a year or so, that he is just a bully in disguise, i can see this in hindsight, but i couldnt see it before or even when i was with him. He had come up with too many excuses and lies for his behavior, and im sure he still can, but at least now im smart enough to not tolerate it.
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
9 Feb 07
This is his child it is his responsibility. She married him she also married his responsibilities. She should feel ashamed if she is trying to help him avoid taking care of his child. Note: I was raised by a step-mother who loves me as much as her own birth daughters. I thank the Lord she accepted my father's responsibilities because even today she is there for me when he has not been for most of my life.
• United States
10 Feb 07
wow. see that is something i would probably do, i could never marry a man that has other children unless im partially able to look after them when its needed. and as long as their birthmother would be comfortable with it, then i'd be more than happy to do so. But ever since he left to be married with her, he has not paid childsupport, hasn't visited my daughter - i have a strong feeling that he is just looking to see what he can get away with. since nothing is under his name except his 10 year old car. which, i doubt he still has.
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@april444 (1342)
• United States
11 Feb 07
just to let you know when they file their taxes they will red flag your exes ss# and you will get the money if they are getting a refund. Good luck to you :)
• United States
18 Feb 07
lol, yea im aware of that! thanx though!
@vitekfdr (651)
• United States
5 Sep 07
Sad to hear that, but i guess we have to just take it as it gets.
@vitekfdr (651)
• United States
5 Sep 07
i think there is nothing wrong with it.
@nicolai (288)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
you have the right to do that, he has a daughter to supportso he must do his responsibilities as the father