so i got this problem...
February 9, 2007 3:21pm CST
okay, so im talking to this one girl now... and before i started talking to her, i had a thing with her friend.. and me and her friend did some stuff.. but then i dont know if this girl im talking to knows about it.. so what should i do? because when all three of us are together at a party or something, i feel a little weird, and i dont want their friendship to end or anything because of me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not?
9 Feb 07
Honesty can cause trouble, but not near as much as keeping the truth from her. Just approach her and tell her you want to be open and honest and tell her about something that happened in the past, emphasize that it was the past. If she can't get over it, well sorry pal, but if you keep it from her and she finds out (and she will find out) then you are in alot more trouble.
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10 Feb 07
hmmm..well people make mistakes..so if this you tell this person and she understands than all good right?? its better to tell her than to hide it from her! trust is the key here. well if all else fails there are plenty of girls out there!
10 Feb 07
i think the best thing that you can do is be honest to yourself and to the girl you like. because even if she doesnt wanna know about it,i think she needs to know because the person that's involve is her friend. and i think a friend is someone really special. and if u keep it to yourself,you might just ruin everythn that you have started..