How will u mend a broken heart?

@joy1982 (226)
Philippines
February 10, 2007 12:33am CST
mending a broken heart is difficult to do and takes time..you have to get busy with your work to be able to forget things slowly..some wants to go on dates so they can easily forget the things happen and some are not.. how about you?
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6 responses
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Mending a broken heart is really a struggle for some people. But the best thing to do is to move on with our daily lives. I believe that dating someone right away will not do good either, because you will just be making a fool out of your self and it will be totally unfair to the person that you're dating, because he/she will just be a cover up on your sadness. I think it's fair enough that after a break up, just stay single for a while and try to regain your composure and confidence. Now if you're ready to love someone else again, and was able to totally forgotten about the past without the bitterness, that's the time to go out and meet somebody.
@joy1982 (226)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
dating with someone else could easily forget the past(maybe the fastes thing to do to mend those broken heart).. and yet its true that youre just making fool out of yourself.. i think dating someone is like your running on your problems..face it and learn from the past.. thanks for your opinion..
@vanities (11387)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Feb 07
when im still single i make it a point that when i enter a relationships i only give my 50% attention and love to that person..coz i know for a fact that nothing is permanent unless at first he pointed out that he was committed or something...that in times sof break up it onlu hurt a bit and i can readily moved on without having to mourn or grief about it...
@LeYaHaNn (100)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i will go out with my friends... and sometimes eat a lot..
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11 Feb 07
the first step to mending a broken heart, from my personal experiences, is to accept that the relationship did not work out, and that it is time to move on.second, one has to work the other party out of their system. how does one do this? the ways are countless: one can drink themselves to oblivion, party so hard they dont have time to dwell on their 'loss', make themselves pretty, go out with friends or go on a shopping and eating binge. all these, of course, are superficial ways that won't exactly mend a broken heart, but make one feel good about themselves, after a breakup. other things that one should do to mend a broken heart is to work on improving theirselves or make themselves more interesting. read books, write down thoughts, try out new things. all of the above suggestions, i have personally tried. but really, what works the best for me is finding a rebound. :D
@nick826 (173)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
For me mending a broken heart is that you should go out with other and meet new people.
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• Australia
10 Feb 07
same here I do the same !!
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