4 Babies at 25?

South Africa
February 10, 2007 4:54am CST
Im 25 and my hubby wants me to give him 2 more kids before he is 40 ..thats in 3 yrs .should i say yes and scarifice a couple of yrs for our family dream ...or so i tell him 2 is enough and go back to work..what should i do ?
3 responses
• United States
10 Feb 07
I'll put it to you very simply. You don't give your husband what HE wants. You give yourself what you BOTH want. If you want it, do it. However, it sounds to me as though you're happy with what you have now.
• South Africa
10 Feb 07
Very wise ..thnak you for your comment:) Em
• United States
10 Feb 07
This is a serious matter, so sit down with him and talk about this. Four kids is a lot to take care of and raise. If you have four, you will end up paying so much for a babysitter. So talk to him about your views on this until you can meet each other halfway.
• South Africa
10 Feb 07
Thanks for you comment:) em
@samson1967 (7422)
• India
10 Feb 07
If he his capable of taking care of all the (four) children with love and comfort, why not give more and more children.
• South Africa
10 Feb 07
He is a good daddy and cares and loves them with everything he has and makes enough money to keep them all happy and educated . Thnaks for your comment:) Em