It makes me sad because only a few participates in my discussions:(

@mayenskie (1307)
Philippines
February 10, 2007 5:51am CST
I wonder how other people can get so many response from others while I can't? I enjoy participating in other's discussions. It does make me sad. How does you feel about it?
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• Philippines
11 Feb 07
haven't really started a discussion yet.. one reason is the fear that there might be no one to respond.. but then.. this is what i am thinking towards that.. to have someone to participate.. you should participate as well.. discuss something that is appealing to them.. don't think that what you posted will not be responded coz there will always be someone who is kind to give you a tag.. there will always be one who can relate..^^ don't worry..^^ i'll always be here to drop by and post..^^
@mayenskie (1307)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Thanks for the pat in my back. I really appreciate it! Start up a discussion. I also got your back buddy.:))
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• Philippines
13 Feb 07
thanks!^^ besides that's what's friends are for!!^^
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@makaira (1158)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
we are on the same side of the coin. sometimes it make me sad but it gives me a motivation to think of what are good topics to be discussed. but sometimes i just cant think of any good topics for discussions. *sigh*
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@mayenskie (1307)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Same here.:( Let's just keep on posting and discussing.hehehe. We go girl! That's the spirit!:))
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@makaira (1158)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
yeah! that's the spirit! cheers!
@alchemistrx (2547)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
Hello,mayenskie,I am also with the same boat as you.But I am hoping that they could drop and post for a while.
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@isyelili (23)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Hello...sorry i wasn't able to browse your discussions before...didn't have much time this past few days. Anyways, I'll be looking forward to replying on your discussions in the coming days.Btw, thanx for introducing me to mylot..hehehe
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@mayenskie (1307)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Hi isyel! Great to see you here! Welcome to mylot, you will enjoy it here and thanks for replying to this post +)).
10 Feb 07
I'm not sure how many friends you have, but I find that having a lot of friends is the key to getting lots of responses. Also I find the questions that get the most responses are ones that everyone will have an answer for, but will provoke a longish answer and not just a few words.
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@mayenskie (1307)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
I got a total of 48 friends as of now. Some are active, others are not. I guess, you are right, better make my questions applicable to all so that they can have an instant answer in mind. Thanks alot.:))
@stateroad (730)
• United States
10 Feb 07
I am sorry you feel sad about this but I do also when this happens to me. I just think people all have different interets and sometimes do not respond to certain discussions. I just try to keep posting different topics and hope that one will attract a lot of people. I try to respond to most of my friends discussion.
@mayenskie (1307)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
So kind of you to add me up in your friends lists. I do appreciate it! Thanks alot!:))
@sandie61 (2359)
• United States
12 Feb 07
I do not get a whole lot of responses either. I always thought that maybe alot of my topics are not as interesting as others that have huge responses.
@moreinfo (3865)
• China
10 Feb 07
same here, frustrating. i got lot of referrals, but they are not active; got lot of friends here, but they are not interested in my discussions here (why they requested to be friends with me?). well, move on, lets try to post some more interesting topics here, and have more fun.
@shineison (874)
• Uganda
13 Feb 07
yes me to i really afraid of this, but i really do response my friends discussions, i think they may also reply on mine, But i am sure they will do it soon.
@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
10 Feb 07
Here i post my response hope you not sad anymore, maybe your discussion is not too interest, so just some users like to response your discussion. Try to make the new and nice topic response that attract others user
@mayenskie (1307)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
Thanks for your kind advice.:)) I wonder why though other topics are similar with mine, others received a number of responses while I got only a few? It does show that my topics are interesting but they just don't reply to my discussions. Isn't that sad?:(
@scooby_13 (175)
• Italy
12 Feb 07
You don't be sad. Too much people writes and little reponde at the discussions.
10 Feb 07
Hey i can relate to this alot. I post dicussion i think people will enjoy and i do get knocked back when i hardly recieve any but i'm not that bothered now. Your friends on your list will pop by and if you spread you responses you should gain a few from doing that. I know you've got 341. (so please don't take my comment regarding spread your replies the wrong way) ~Joey
• United States
12 Feb 07
Yes, that happens to me an awful lot too...and I don't know wether the subjects I post aren't attractive enough or what... But hey, I'm here to help!!!! Don't get discouraged, people will start posting soon!!!
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
the most i get only five responses, but that doesnt make me feel bad. im a beginner infact. just make sure that your topic is relevant to the majority. im your friend. feel good.