Can a woman be fat and sexy at the same time?

@jsae29 (1122)
Philippines
February 11, 2007 1:56am CST
A lot of us measures one sexiness by the measurement of one's body. So if your fat then you are not sexy. But there are women who are fat but claim that they are sexy. Can this really be true? Fat and sexy at the same time?
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8 responses
@hahzen63 (157)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
Sexiness is an attitude. Being fat is just how you or other people see you, it is objective and would usually be based on society's description of what is and what is not fat.
@jsae29 (1122)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
That's what I'm talking about...it's all in the ATTITUDE of a person, how one sees life.
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• China
20 Mar 07
yeah , i agree
@misskatonic (3727)
• United States
11 Feb 07
Look at Queen Latifa. That should be your answer right there. She's an amazingly sexy woman! And she's a large woman. Large women can easily be sexy - if a woman is large but healthy and self confident with a beautiful face and holds herself well, of course she's sexy! Sexy isn't about weight at all, it's about so much more.
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@jsae29 (1122)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I guess you are right. Having the right attitude could make one sexy right away.
• United States
22 Feb 07
It can be done. Some women can be large and sexy at the same time. It is all on what you look for in awoman I guess. My ex is a larger woman, when I was with her I found her mildley attractive. She did get really big one time and I was not attrated to her. Then she lost a little weight and she was OK again. Also going the other way women that are to skinny definatly are not sexy. It is all what you think is sexy. It also depends on how the weight is crried and what the woman wears. People need to find clothes that are right for them and not to tight or reveling.
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@kylerrhys (164)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
nice topic there..but yes..being sexy does not necessarily have to be perfect body..it's how you handle yourself and act.
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@jsae29 (1122)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
That true! It is just a matter of projection. Personality counts the most.
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
Yeah, for me even they are kinda fat, chubby, healthy, they are still sexy for me, coz being a sexy is not just based on the body figure, it also has a reflection with your behavior, also with the skin and outlook in life! Having a smooth skin for me is a plus indeed! have a nice day
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• Philippines
2 Mar 07
yup, and i like see girls to be a little bit fat but sexy
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• Canada
22 Feb 07
Oh yah - heavy women can be sexy! Just ask my husband LOL. It's about caring for yourself, being confident, and taking care of yourself. It's not about the weight at all.
• India
21 Feb 07
ya, i have seen so many womans like that.....