do you wait for love to find you or do you go find love for yourself

United States
February 11, 2007 3:18am CST
i wait and love has not found me
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7 responses
• United States
11 Feb 07
You can't wait for anyone or anything in life. You'll go without. If you are a female as you state, there's no reason nowadays for you to sit back nd expect the guy to make the first move. The guy you may like a lot may be shy and never approach you. You'll never know what you might have missed out on. It doesn't matter where you are or who your with, keep your eyes and your mind open.
• United States
11 Feb 07
i think you are right but i am shy
• United States
11 Feb 07
Sometimes if you just smile at a guy, even just say hi, it will break the ice. We are suckers for a woman who shows use any kind of attention, good attention that is. Another thing to keep in mind is that most people are afraid of being rejected if they open themselves up to someone. Even those who seem to be so outgoing. I'm quite that type but I fear rejection too. It's all about how we handle it. If you have someone in mind or find someone, the best way to start any conversation is to talk about what's happening at that very moment. Something he's saying, doing or holding. That goes the other way as well, what you're talking about or doing with someone else, include him. Believe me, we love the attention. However, smart men know when to shut up and let a woman talk.
@bcc23488 (883)
• Thailand
11 Feb 07
I follow person that I love her a lot but I must stop relation with her because I think she is good girl that I don't want to see her cry or found her bad point I think I don't stay with her but I can keep my feeling with her do you think I am silly or not?
• United States
11 Feb 07
i think you should stay with her since you found her already
@racsface (122)
• Malaysia
11 Feb 07
for me as a man, ill go to find my love. exposed urself to public will help you.
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
i believe in destiny... if someone is meant for you, it will go to you even if you're hiding in timbuktu...
@anne_143god (5390)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
I prefered to wait it for it is not good to look for it. I think love just come on the right time and you should not have to wait for it for if it is for you it will come to you.
@zugedanit (1958)
• Philippines
11 Feb 07
As a woman, I prefer to wait for love rather than to find love for myself. I have many suitor even though that I have a boyfriend already and getting married this coming May. I believe that we have a destiny for love and love can find us.
• Al Mansurah, Egypt
11 Feb 07
you must go to fiend the love