How can we judge a person??
February 12, 2007 4:07am CST
Can any suggest good tips to judge a person?
12 Feb 07
It's pretty hard to judge a person if you've only been with him or her for a short time. You can probably only make good guesses. Plus it also depends on what area you're trying to judge. Are you talking about a person's intelligence? stamina? looks? traits? To answer your question, I usually look at a person's eyes. I believe in the saying that the eyes are "windows to the soul" and for some reason, it has always helped me in checking out a person's character. I also take note of non-verbal signs like if the person is fidgeting or moving around or playing with his or her hands plus the way he or she is talking. This is helpful especially if you're trying to figure out if a person is lying or not. I've noticed that people who lie tend to avoid looking in your eyes and if they do, they break contact easily. Hope this helps. =)
12 Feb 07
The old line "Never Judge a Book by its Cover" holds true. Never make snap judgements, you have to get to know a person before you can make a judgement. You have to be prepared for disappointment when you find that maybe you were wrong in your judgement. Try to listen before you speak, you can tell so much from a person by the way they speak to you. Give a person time, they might be equally unsure of you.