How can we judge a person??

India
February 12, 2007 4:07am CST
Can any suggest good tips to judge a person?
9 responses
• United States
14 Feb 07
Ugly people are always wrong. 'nuff said.
@MAX1966 (1030)
• Netherlands
14 Feb 07
strange answer. so it means you are ugly too?
• United States
15 Feb 07
We're all ugly on the inside.
@sonnet (165)
• South Korea
15 Feb 07
One way to judge a person is by listening to how they judge others. It can teach you a lot about that person to hear what they will say about others behind their backs.
• India
16 Feb 07
thanks for ur suggestions
@rainsong7 (124)
• Canada
14 Feb 07
judge a person by thier integrity..a person should walk thier talk...a red flag for me...is people who gossip/complain/badmouth about people they supposedly love...this is not a good sign...unless perhaps you are thier therapist...otherwise...run fast
• India
16 Feb 07
thanks for suggesting
@MAX1966 (1030)
• Netherlands
14 Feb 07
yes. try to walk in an other persons shoes first. then judge. or try to think about the reason why. why is he or she doing this?
• India
16 Feb 07
thanks for suggestion
• Australia
14 Feb 07
i usually go by first impressions but they are not always accurate but i definetly go by my gut instinct, if it feels bad then it almost always is
• India
14 Feb 07
ya its true
@rosedust82 (2075)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
It's pretty hard to judge a person if you've only been with him or her for a short time. You can probably only make good guesses. Plus it also depends on what area you're trying to judge. Are you talking about a person's intelligence? stamina? looks? traits? To answer your question, I usually look at a person's eyes. I believe in the saying that the eyes are "windows to the soul" and for some reason, it has always helped me in checking out a person's character. I also take note of non-verbal signs like if the person is fidgeting or moving around or playing with his or her hands plus the way he or she is talking. This is helpful especially if you're trying to figure out if a person is lying or not. I've noticed that people who lie tend to avoid looking in your eyes and if they do, they break contact easily. Hope this helps. =)
• India
12 Feb 07
i am talking about nature.. how can we judge the nature
12 Feb 07
The old line "Never Judge a Book by its Cover" holds true. Never make snap judgements, you have to get to know a person before you can make a judgement. You have to be prepared for disappointment when you find that maybe you were wrong in your judgement. Try to listen before you speak, you can tell so much from a person by the way they speak to you. Give a person time, they might be equally unsure of you.
• India
12 Feb 07
oh k ya that true what you have written thanks for suggesting
• India
12 Feb 07
we can judge a person by his activities and also with his speech and in his eyes... through this we can able to judge a little bit of his character..
• India
12 Feb 07
thanks for your response
5 Mar 07
Thank you for the best response