How ever old you are, married or single, do you ever think of your first love?

@ESKARENA1 (18299)
February 12, 2007 4:34am CST
You know what its like, in idle moments your mind drifts back in timeDo you ever find yourself thinking of your first love?
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• United States
12 Feb 07
i dont wonder what if i thank god for the time becasue now im so much better iff n glad for the thigns i learned becasue now that im with my hubby i havent made the same msitakes i used to be jealous im not anymore
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
12 Feb 07
im pleased you have sorted this out for yourself, blessed be
12 Feb 07
yes quite often i drift off into oblivion and think about past loves the what if's the if onlys, my first love will stay with me forever in my mind he ended up marrying my friends sister, but i forgave him for that. He taught me a lot, then i got married and lost the plot hahaha tc have fun xx
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
12 Feb 07
hahaha plus for you. I thank you for your honesty, i think we spend most of our lives wondering, what if, im not sure if its good or bad, but its true blessed be
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@maddysmommy (16233)
• United States
8 Mar 07
Sometimes I do, if i come across a name associated with his family, and if I see an old picture of him. Now and then I think about where he is, whether he is married and has any children.
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
8 Mar 07
i think this is the sort of thing i do and i think its perfectly normal and natural to do this blessed be
@hezoid (2147)
7 Mar 07
My first love is the man i am with now, since i was never in love in any of my previous boyfriends. So yeah, i think about him all the time!
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
7 Mar 07
you are blessed indeed, keep on loving
24 Feb 07
My first and only love is my hubby. We have been married over 5 years now and we couldn't be happier. It took me till my late 40's to find Mr Right, but I am glad I did. I didn't settle for second best. We have known each other for many a lifetimes.
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@lucalucky (1840)
• Italy
14 Feb 07
Yes I do that often also because I am in touch with her. We have busy lifes but we are in touch daily or at least weekly So I think to her also because I speak with her. I think we are really still good and very close friend. She is a special friend!
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
14 Feb 07
ohhhh wow you are lucky indeed, blessed be
@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
14 Feb 07
I often think about a girl named Debbie M. We were both 14 but she moved west and i moved east. It's a kinda what if thinking. I am sure a lot of us have thought this. Take care Eskarena.
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
14 Feb 07
blessed be, take care yourself. I too remember mine, I was 10 and it was beautiful. Im sure we all do it too, nothing wrong with that
@zynijh (44)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
i always do...and i even find my self in the midst of tears...but my feelings loosen up when got to see my kids....
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
14 Feb 07
blessed be, i agree kids have a wonderful way of bringing us firmly down to earth. Blessed be, keep on posting
@xParanoiax (6997)
• United States
13 Feb 07
There's not really a day that goes by that I don't think of him.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
14 Feb 07
awwwwwwww do you think that is healthy? I hope you are still with him
• United States
13 Feb 07
I'm going to be getting married later this year and I do think about my first love. I think for many others we think about the first person because it's always a question in the back of our minds what life would've been with them. Could it have been good or would it have ended up in divorce. But as more time goes on, I think about him less and less.
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
13 Feb 07
i think that is a healthy perspective, thinking what if? but as time moves on it fades away, blessed be
• United States
12 Feb 07
I think your first love is always in the back of your mind. I know I often recall times with him, although I don't relish being with him again or anything. But he was an important first step in my life of romance.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
12 Feb 07
very good reply my friend. i think we all go through periods like that, i know I do. Its not that you want them back but in idle moments we just day dream, blessed be
@BlaKy2 (1475)
• Romania
12 Feb 07
I am 25 years old and i think i found my love. I am happy next to her and i want to spend all my life near her.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
12 Feb 07
then you are a lucky person indeed, blessed be
• Melbourne, Florida
12 Feb 07
I am always thinking of my first love. I first fell for him in the first grade. And we were high school sweethearts. And we were married for a while. He was a part of my childhood, all of my childhood. Besides my family, he knows me better than anyone else on this earth. Everything I am today, had something to do with his influence on my past.
@ESKARENA1 (18299)
12 Feb 07
that is a beautiful sentiment, you are blessed in deed to have known such a relationship. I envy you, blessed be
@shywolf (4520)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Yes, but not that often. It's been a long time, probably 18 years, since I was with my first love / first boyfriend. I still have dreams about him, though, sometimes, like last night. And that causes me to think about him again. But I wouldn't want to be with him again even if I could. We have nothing really in common anymore - in fact, I was so into his interests when I was with him that I really changed myself, and there's a part of me that is sorry that I did that, although I figure that all things in life happen for a reason, and my time with him was a growing up experience and a learning experience, so I truly wouldn't change it. But I don't want him back, and I don't think about him that often.
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@ESKARENA1 (18299)
12 Feb 07
thank you for that. Its great to look back and realise that we wouldnt change it even if we could
• United States
8 Mar 07
I still talk to my first love and I will always wish the best for him and hope he finds happiness like I did with my hubby No one will ever forget there first love
@gem0211 (38)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
There are moments that i wonder what if i married my first love.Sometimes, lost in my thoughts,moments which i wish could last forever.Well, he is happy right now with another woman so i am happy for him as well.Good day to you.