How to deal with a friend when..

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... she's mad at you? I have a girl friend who got pregnant but after three months needed D&C since the baby died inside of her. Her parents didnt know that she's pregnant so she relied on us for moral support, money for medical check-ups and almost everything. But D&C would cost us a lot since its a minor operation and we're all just students. I know we cannot help her any further and she needs someone who can do a lot more for her. I told her that its time to tell her parents because above all else, its her family who can take care of her unconditionally. Then she loudly blurted out these words to our other friends: "if you're friend is dying, would you not help her?" and I was there. I know she was making me feel guilty, that I seemed to abandon her. And now she's mad. She has gone home, told her parents and has recovered from miscarriage... but she's mad at me. What should I do? (this is not my story. Its from a friend. She wants some advise.)