Lazy Men

@lump_z (116)
United States
February 12, 2007 5:38pm CST
Is it just me or do men seem lazy in this day and age? I have been married three times and in several relationships and it just seemed like i was the one who had to work! I raised three children while working two jobs all the while my now ex-husband sat on his butt.. I am just wondering if it was just me being an enabler to them or were they truly lazy? All you men out there if a woman doesn't gripe and will work hard does that give you the right to take advantage and not work because she will do it all?, Or are you the type to want to be the bread winner and take care of your family? Just something that is on my mind...
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@Miriel (1043)
• Norway
12 Feb 07
To be honest with you, I do not think that men are lazy , I think men and women have a different way of thinking. When it comes to house work they actually dont see the clutter that bothers us women so much. When it comes to work for money I do not think they are lazy. Of course some of them will be, but these are the persons that are lazy by nature. But overall I do not see them as more lazy than women.
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@lump_z (116)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I just remember when i was little my dad went to work and my mom stayed home, by choice, But my dad never missed work and was always the one who WANTED to make the money. And nowadays i just seem to not see a whole lot of that, the men i have met expect their women to work weather they want to or not, then they have to take care of the children and the house, Is that fair??
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@lump_z (116)
• United States
13 Feb 07
oops i meant (whether)...relly i can spell...lol
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@lump_z (116)
• United States
13 Feb 07
lmao...i meant really...i need to proof read these..
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@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I think t was probably the men you chose. My first husband was lazy as you could get but 10years after divorcing him i married my second husband and he works and works and works!