if divorce and annulment exist, why do we need marriage?

the true meaning of love - is not and never of matrimony and in papers...
Philippines
February 13, 2007 3:44am CST
what for if its just meant to be lured into separation, with the thought of divorce, the more there is an exercise of right and again and again such mutuality can be ended indeed... if theres such separation, whats the uuse of marriage... do you think its so neccessary to marry? isnt it love doesnt need papers and all the public affirmation to be able to experience love or true love? i dont get why most just make fun of the fact of unity or matrimony when in the end its just going to waste. its a little bit of game for most who abuse such privilage.
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@LeXDei (209)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Divorce and annulment exist as legal remedies to individuals who are into marriages that could not be salvaged anymore. Divorce and annulment simply recognize the fact that people commit mistakes. Let us admit the fact that there are traits or attitudes in one's partner that can only be manifested after the wedding ceremony or worse, after having children. The dissolution of marital bonds is of course not favored as we all regard marriage as a solemn vow, as the ultimate manifestation of the love of two persons. There are extreme situations though, that love cannot overcome reality--this is where divorce and annulment come into play!
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
are you mad?
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
14 Mar 07
divorce and anullment occur when we fail to live up to our promises and commitments
@shineison (875)
• Uganda
13 Feb 07
We always need marriage, Divorce and annulment are parts of life. Question is why Divorce and annulment? 1st of all i think not understanding each other.
@lucky_witch (2713)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Marriage is a good foundation of family... something that you can offer and give your partner as a sign that the search is over and finally found a home. Whereas you give up your freedom and both think as one... plan for the future... have kids etc... for short, its the security given to your partner. But sometimes things doesn't work in a way we expected it to be... faithfulness die and infidelity occur... the spark of love slowly die and replace by doubt... Sometimes we feel that it is impossible to settle things together and it would be better if we go on separate ways... it is where divorce/annulment take place...
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• India
13 Feb 07
Marriage proves to be a bond between two persons . If such bond is full of love and affection then there is no doubt that that bond is gonna last for ever. If such bond is ful of jealousies or lust or misunderstanding then there are every chanches of divorce. Marrige is essential because it stands as a sheild against small quarells or causes which would otherwise result into breakage of the relationship
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
14 Mar 07
Marriage gives the children rights for two parents and a safe haven. If the parents are not committed then they shouldnt be having children. If my significant other isnt willing to commit to me then I dont want to risk life with her. It is not a game it is life