Does your boyfriend replace your valuable time together with other activities...

United States
February 13, 2007 6:50pm CST
Does anyone have the same problem I do? My boyfriend and I don't get to spend a lot of time to together and when we do he'd rather talk to his "friends" or do other activities than give me his undevoted time to talk. This really gets me upset..
3 responses
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
14 Feb 07
really? does he really love you and was this the first time he did that or he has been doing this since you two met? Why don't you call for his attention, and talk about it? If he refused to talk about it then find another bf.
• United States
14 Feb 07
umm, I don't think so, I don't think selling fake stargate money to computer geeks qulifies as a proper excuse for ignoring the only time we have to talk. In addition, you left out that theres a six hour time gap between us putting you ahead in the day. So when I want to talk I expect undevoted attention.
• United States
14 Feb 07
no you left hat part out such as you left out other things. If you want to end up your relationship, you don't need to make Patrick look bad, Just say you had a change of heart. You need to say the time you won't even answer his calls because you having a beauty sleep. Or start playing with the dog because you didn't get your ways. I live with you, I had you and I know where you coming from. Stop making excuses and try to make people to feel babd for you. Patrick does play stargate no surprise, so he spend time in other thing on the computer you knew that from the start. But he has let his friends hangging for you, I know that. I love you , and you know I do. But you need to grow up, and finding a new bf is not going to resolve the proble. I though you say you love this kid, or you wher just confuse. Love support everything, You give with out expecting anything in return. Now you tell me he is playing you, or doesn't call you, or ignores you all the time. Then I say you are right. But you now how mant times that kid calls the house and im me to get you. Sometimes I have to begg for you to answer his calls. Please just be honest and stop with your games.
• United States
14 Feb 07
I wouldn't listen to her because she loves to make up stories about how my boyfriend is gay and then say she didn't say that and how he is probably cheating on me for a more intelligent and pretty girl. Oh and then when were arguing and I wont talk to him she says I'm cheating on him. I wouldn't find another boyfriend because I don't think the situation is that serious.
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
hi belleza! well all guys of different walks of life do that but the good news is that you can do something about it!! you got to play the game of making his knees fall for you, make him wonder about you the whole day, make him call you alot, miss you terribly more than you do... how do you do that??? ignore him ... show him that youre very busy with activities, your happy and busy just like an actress!! and if you do that he will be the one whos hanging and wondering about you the whole time!! sounds too good to be true eh?? well if you have more questions just message me c: oh yeah... it might take a while for you to get used to it but try not calling him for every five call he makes , make it only 1 call keep it short light and flirtatious, make the call 10 mins. then he'll make the conversation longer c: but be sweet along the way c: just fire up his natural responses as a human male c: fire up his male ambition, desire and drive by letting him come to you not you come to him.. if youre the one who keeps on comming to him he might get tired of you... why take that chance of him getting sick and tired of the relationship... trust in this process c: he'll end up running after you c: dont complain if his friends are there have your friends be there too and just give him space he'll love you more for that!! remember the natural order of things "man pursues woman" cheers!! enjoy!!!
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
hi patrin! I know that you want to make her happy! c: but it seems like her blog is about her being sad... but you could do something about it c: small acts of love can go a long way .... surprise her.... its up to you what it is c:. just base it on the blog she wrote c:
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• United States
14 Feb 07
He's definitely not running anywheres and regardless of what he says he'd be on the computer anyways making deals off fake money from some stupid online game. He has also decided to write after anyone who posts in here so that he doesn't look bad.
• United States
14 Feb 07
Your really good at reading through my words. You should give a lot more advice to my boyfriend on love and your most likely going to hear from me again.
• United States
14 Feb 07
Well here I am, You see a story has two part of it. They had a 5 hour different in between them. Audrey gets from school at 2:15 easter time must of the time, that is 7:15 pm Ireland time. Patrick goes to college too, my beautiful princess comes home and go to sleep. When she deside to get up and log on, after Patrick has called the house several times, IM me several type searching for her,k she need to eat. Well you know he is very patient, have you think that maybe he is getting tired. He stays up until 5:00 am to see you and talk to you. And yes is true he did pay for you ticket and bougth you a new computer. Well you need to weight things out. You need to grow up, stop being spoil. In a relationship things can't not being 100% right. I told you this before, I rather my husband do what Patrick does than being in he street clubbing. He is a really good kid, perfect he is not, he is just learning. Just like you are. Give him some slack. If you had a change of heart, then you need to sit down and talk thing over, because you don't need to keep spending time on making him look bad when he is not. You know that kid kiss the floor you walk on. When you agree to this relationship, you knew that it wasn't going to be easy. You only got to see each other in holidays. Now you made big plans for June, the way thing sounds is that you two need to sit down and compromise. Talk to each other. Only you two can make the relationship work if you want to. Stop bamming him for everything and look at what you had done too. Sometimes in love you give without return, that is true love. You care and give and don't expect a penny. Givis are not importan, as long as you have each other. A action is mored important that anything else. Stop bring 3rd person and you should say thing that are not completly true.